"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Couldn't care less Vs Could care less

Which one do you use?

  • Couldn't care less

    Votes: 20 76.9%
  • Could care less

    Votes: 3 11.5%
  • Neither

    Votes: 3 11.5%

  • Total voters
    26

Adam See

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I've never got this, it's completely alien to me as to why people say it.

Couldn't care less means you couldn't care anything less about something.

Could care less means you care a slight bit and could care less.

It's never been 'could care less'! it's 'couldn't care less'! :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KOSR

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I could care less about this threat!

I think it's could, meant as slightly degrading and sarcastic.

But whatever :D
 

Nocturnal

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Sounded interesting so I did some looking...

http://c2.com/cgi/wiki?IdiomsAreAtomic

"Thus, an idiom's internal structure may be ungrammatical, logically invalid ('I could care less' for 'I couldn't care less', a sarcastic variant of the latter which became common in and of itself)"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DjDreamer

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If I don't care about something i don't bother to think or talk about it...

So... if you continue to talk about a subject after you say "I couldn't care less" about that subject...you're a hypocrite...

Saying "I could care less" is more realistic...
 

Nocturnal

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Originally posted by photo 1
could care less implies that you could actually care less about it and so you have not reached the bottom end of how much you do not care about something.. therefore it's not something you totally dont care about which therefore is wrong used in the context most people use it

couldn't care less means you literally could not care less about it, you have reached the bottom limit of how much you care about it, in other words you dont care about it at all, you care about everything else more.. this is the correct way to say it..
Yes but idioms are far from literal so it would be safe to say that if enough people use one form or the other, it still has an implied meaning.
 

Bonhomme

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Call the logic police!

Actually neither is strictly correct. They're both relative expressions that do not automatically state any particular level of caring. Could or could not care less than what?

But if one doesn't care at all, then it certainly follows that they could not care less.

It's basically an abuse of "if/then" logic.
 

silverwex

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Unusual coz i was gonna post about this a few months ago.

I always the americans saying could care less but that doesnt make sense. Couldnt care less is correct.
 

Jay-X

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in italian, correct form is the translation of "couldn't care less", but we often say "could care less" too... i think it's easier to pronounce when ur talkin' fast, so even if it's an incorrect form, it's used a lot...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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