"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Could you give me some advice about this (not long)

The_Reaper

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I am going to London for a week with my gf, who is Russian and is strapped for cash. She asked me "suppose you have enough money for the trip to pay for everything, in this case will u pay for me??"

I'm with her over 7 months, and never before did I pay a single thing for her, not even a can of pepsi- nothing.

I feel a little bad that she hasn't much money right now, but also, I'm not exactly rich.

I don't know what to say to her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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The_Reaper said:
I am going to London for a week with my gf, who is Russian .
No offence but Russian girls always tend to follow the money. I don't know what is it about them maybe its the way they brought up in Russia but every time I meet a russian chick its always all about the money with them. Maybe its not true to all russian woman but that has been my experience in that deparment.

Go on the trip by yourself and stay away from goldiggers who have no shame in bluntly wanting you to pay their way.
 

Yakovinho

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u dont have to buy her sh*t!
if she wants she can pay for herself!
 
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OOOOO Hell no!!!!!!!!!! Are you her husband?????????????
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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