"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Could you give me some advice about this (not long)

The_Reaper

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I am going to London for a week with my gf, who is Russian and is strapped for cash. She asked me "suppose you have enough money for the trip to pay for everything, in this case will u pay for me??"

I'm with her over 7 months, and never before did I pay a single thing for her, not even a can of pepsi- nothing.

I feel a little bad that she hasn't much money right now, but also, I'm not exactly rich.

I don't know what to say to her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJDamage

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The_Reaper said:
I am going to London for a week with my gf, who is Russian .
No offence but Russian girls always tend to follow the money. I don't know what is it about them maybe its the way they brought up in Russia but every time I meet a russian chick its always all about the money with them. Maybe its not true to all russian woman but that has been my experience in that deparment.

Go on the trip by yourself and stay away from goldiggers who have no shame in bluntly wanting you to pay their way.
 

Yakovinho

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u dont have to buy her sh*t!
if she wants she can pay for herself!
 
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OOOOO Hell no!!!!!!!!!! Are you her husband?????????????
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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