"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mikey2012

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Dump or NC your GF if you found you were getting emotionally involved ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LandingWood

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Yes. It's only possible if you're spinning though. You need other chicks to fill the void. Otherwise you feel like **** everyday.
 

TheException

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mikey2012 said:
Dump or NC your GF if you found you were getting emotionally involved ?
Whats the point of a LTR if you dont want to become emotionally involved? Its called stay single and spin multiple plates if you dont want be emotionally involved with a woman.
 

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There's nothing wrong with getting emotionally involved. In fact good luck consciously trying not to if you like her.

But if you're going to get emotionally involved, try not to do it with someone already married or with excess baggage. Otherwise it'll get messy. As your constant posts on this one woman will attest.
 

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There's nothing wrong with getting emotionally involved. In fact good luck consciously trying not to if you like her.

But if you're going to get emotionally involved, try not to do it with someone already married or with excess baggage. Otherwise it'll get messy. As your constant posts on this one woman will attest.
You seem to have a chip on your shoulder? Did someone have an affair with your wife?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thecreature said:
You seem to have a chip on your shoulder? Did someone have an affair with your wife?
lol. no, mikey. they did not.
 
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