"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mikey2012

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Dump or NC your GF if you found you were getting emotionally involved ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes. It's only possible if you're spinning though. You need other chicks to fill the void. Otherwise you feel like **** everyday.
 

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mikey2012 said:
Dump or NC your GF if you found you were getting emotionally involved ?
Whats the point of a LTR if you dont want to become emotionally involved? Its called stay single and spin multiple plates if you dont want be emotionally involved with a woman.
 

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There's nothing wrong with getting emotionally involved. In fact good luck consciously trying not to if you like her.

But if you're going to get emotionally involved, try not to do it with someone already married or with excess baggage. Otherwise it'll get messy. As your constant posts on this one woman will attest.
 

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There's nothing wrong with getting emotionally involved. In fact good luck consciously trying not to if you like her.

But if you're going to get emotionally involved, try not to do it with someone already married or with excess baggage. Otherwise it'll get messy. As your constant posts on this one woman will attest.
You seem to have a chip on your shoulder? Did someone have an affair with your wife?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thecreature said:
You seem to have a chip on your shoulder? Did someone have an affair with your wife?
lol. no, mikey. they did not.
 
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