"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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could you ask a girl this?

Climax

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lekka...

Originally posted by Hellboy

Why don't you walk up to her, look her straight in the eye with a cheeky grin and say... "So, what are we doing for Valentines day?"

You can pass it off as a joke but be bold and be strong until you see her reaction.

Thats also an interesting, yet good way to do it.... nice;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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errr...

Originally posted by dearsappho
VD is a an itch that you cant scratch - end of.

well i guess we are all entitled to out own opinions?:rolleyes:

*sigh*

Laterz...
 

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right on...

Originally posted by dearsappho
Happy VD day, man. Dont forget to post your results!

Thanx man.. u 2... and dont worry, i'll keep u posted;)


Laterz..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think hellboy nailed it. With the right attitiude it is probably the best way to go. If you do end up doing something on V day make sure it is nothing like what a girl would think a guy should do. Keep it very, very casual. Don't go anywhere you are likely to run into AFCs dressed as cupid or sporting candy boxes bigger then they are.

Adapt it to your style but I think C+F window shopping or a really off topic movie would be good ways to go. If things go really well, and you can do it in an ironic way, split a couple of those tiny cinnammon hearts with her. If irony isn't your style best to stay away from any mention of the day at all.

Another interesting angle - a few years ago a girl asked me to do something for Valentine's sucks day (celebrated the same day as V day) The days leading up to it we talked about the things one could do to protest V day. Great hilarious self writing convo. I found her more interesting and you'd find out if she was fun or a fat pink slab of tiresome romantic fluff.
 

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Re:

If a woman responds to alphaness...and alphaness traits would be direct, unattached, and not care about the outcome...would it stand to be logical that a DIRECT question is better than beating around a bush?


Just a thought. Something that has worked was to be ****y, ballsy, and somewhat arrogant. But being direct is better than being a pvssy and beating around WHAT IT IS YOU WANT.




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