"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Could this work?

MixMaxster

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Countless women have to deal with less than ideal men. Most of the time they are stuck with losers and as a result treat these guys like their *****es, because hey when in rome why not.

Now here's the thing, I will admit that for a long while I didn't know I wasn't a "man" i was a WOman. Why? Because I had best friends who were mainly chicks and that's how I talk, like a chick. But things changed and I wondered if this approach could turn my ex's ear.

Just going up to her just reaking of confidence and telling her "I made mistakes, but you and I both know we worked great together. If you give me a chance I can show you that I have the guts to stand up for wut I believe in. And I believe in us and love you with all my heart and I know you love me back, I should be your husband.. I want to have a family with you and have kids wit you.. who have your eyes and your face.. please marry me."

Or am I just like super high on crack?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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belividere

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damn with a customer like you your dealer will be able to retire soon.
 

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no you shoulnt ever express your love like that,
basically you would be begging for her... if you did that then she would either run or put a lead on you!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just going up to her just reaking of confidence and telling her
I want to have a family with you and have kids wit you..
LOL! I had to glue those together. You sound like you want to have confidence that she'll come back to you. Your confidence should be aimed at yourself. You have the confidence to move on with you life without her. Hell, you have the confidence to continue living without a woman. But you also have the confidence to lead a woman into your world without worrying what she thinks of you.

I'll tell you how I was confident with my ex. I used to avoid her like the plague after I left her. All the control was still in her hands.... until I ran into her at the bar one day. I approached her and said hello. I had a very brief conversation with her without being 5hit scared of her. She was put off balance. I remained friendly toward her, but I kept things brief and went back to what I was doing. I flipped the fvcking tables and she got to a point where she found herself attracted to me again. Unfortunately for her, I wouldn't go back out with her. I knew I could find a better woman.
 

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Yeah I was joking around :D

But I wasn't joking about the message and that was that women do date losers, known fact. I had the thought that maybe it wasn't so crazy afterall for someone to just grab hold of who they really wanted without thinking about if it'd work or not.

I'll just continue to laugh at the whole thing, but this wasn't some trick aimed at you guys.. I really did think it was possible, but at the same time I had to laugh because it sounded so funny. Thanks for the input all the same guys.
 
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