"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Could this work?

MixMaxster

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Countless women have to deal with less than ideal men. Most of the time they are stuck with losers and as a result treat these guys like their *****es, because hey when in rome why not.

Now here's the thing, I will admit that for a long while I didn't know I wasn't a "man" i was a WOman. Why? Because I had best friends who were mainly chicks and that's how I talk, like a chick. But things changed and I wondered if this approach could turn my ex's ear.

Just going up to her just reaking of confidence and telling her "I made mistakes, but you and I both know we worked great together. If you give me a chance I can show you that I have the guts to stand up for wut I believe in. And I believe in us and love you with all my heart and I know you love me back, I should be your husband.. I want to have a family with you and have kids wit you.. who have your eyes and your face.. please marry me."

Or am I just like super high on crack?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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belividere

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damn with a customer like you your dealer will be able to retire soon.
 

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no you shoulnt ever express your love like that,
basically you would be begging for her... if you did that then she would either run or put a lead on you!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Desdinova

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Just going up to her just reaking of confidence and telling her
I want to have a family with you and have kids wit you..
LOL! I had to glue those together. You sound like you want to have confidence that she'll come back to you. Your confidence should be aimed at yourself. You have the confidence to move on with you life without her. Hell, you have the confidence to continue living without a woman. But you also have the confidence to lead a woman into your world without worrying what she thinks of you.

I'll tell you how I was confident with my ex. I used to avoid her like the plague after I left her. All the control was still in her hands.... until I ran into her at the bar one day. I approached her and said hello. I had a very brief conversation with her without being 5hit scared of her. She was put off balance. I remained friendly toward her, but I kept things brief and went back to what I was doing. I flipped the fvcking tables and she got to a point where she found herself attracted to me again. Unfortunately for her, I wouldn't go back out with her. I knew I could find a better woman.
 

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Yeah I was joking around :D

But I wasn't joking about the message and that was that women do date losers, known fact. I had the thought that maybe it wasn't so crazy afterall for someone to just grab hold of who they really wanted without thinking about if it'd work or not.

I'll just continue to laugh at the whole thing, but this wasn't some trick aimed at you guys.. I really did think it was possible, but at the same time I had to laugh because it sounded so funny. Thanks for the input all the same guys.
 
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