"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Could this cold approach work?

Naapimp

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Anyone ever try doing cold approaches to girls walking around in public without getting eye contact or a smile first? Specifically I see a lot of potential girls I’d like to try this on when I’m walking around campus in between classes. It seems like there’s great opportunity here if you do it right. Is anyone a pro at this and could maybe write a guide or give some advice? I’d need to number close on them in like 1-5 minutes. How do you think I should go about this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Naapimp

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No one dares challenge this? Come on someone help me out.

I know it's risky invading their personal space without a smile or even eye contact. I think though you could tell if she'll be responsive and let you establish good report right when you first approach her if your keen enough to her vibe. If she’s not in the mood you could play it off like nothing and move on.

I’m not that good with cold approaches yet so I don’t I should try this right now. Trying to get a smile out of them doesn’t happen that often though.
 

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All you need to know is no matter what approach you use there can only be 1 of 2 outcomes. She will accept it or she will decline it. Use that as your focus in your mind. Dont let your mind conjure up a 100 different outcomes. Focus on the bottom line. Sometimes Cold approaches work sometimes they dont. Sometimes a girl who likes you will approach you sometimes she wont. Train your mind to focus on the bottom line, which is there is only two possible outcomes YES/NO!
 
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