"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Could this cold approach work?

Naapimp

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Anyone ever try doing cold approaches to girls walking around in public without getting eye contact or a smile first? Specifically I see a lot of potential girls I’d like to try this on when I’m walking around campus in between classes. It seems like there’s great opportunity here if you do it right. Is anyone a pro at this and could maybe write a guide or give some advice? I’d need to number close on them in like 1-5 minutes. How do you think I should go about this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Naapimp

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No one dares challenge this? Come on someone help me out.

I know it's risky invading their personal space without a smile or even eye contact. I think though you could tell if she'll be responsive and let you establish good report right when you first approach her if your keen enough to her vibe. If she’s not in the mood you could play it off like nothing and move on.

I’m not that good with cold approaches yet so I don’t I should try this right now. Trying to get a smile out of them doesn’t happen that often though.
 

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All you need to know is no matter what approach you use there can only be 1 of 2 outcomes. She will accept it or she will decline it. Use that as your focus in your mind. Dont let your mind conjure up a 100 different outcomes. Focus on the bottom line. Sometimes Cold approaches work sometimes they dont. Sometimes a girl who likes you will approach you sometimes she wont. Train your mind to focus on the bottom line, which is there is only two possible outcomes YES/NO!
 
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