Anyone ever try doing cold approaches to girls walking around in public without getting eye contact or a smile first? Specifically I see a lot of potential girls I’d like to try this on when I’m walking around campus in between classes. It seems like there’s great opportunity here if you do it right. Is anyone a pro at this and could maybe write a guide or give some advice? I’d need to number close on them in like 1-5 minutes. How do you think I should go about this?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Could this cold approach work?
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