"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Could This Be Done???

Mayfly

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I have a semi-formal on Saturday for my collegiate cross country team. Guys wear ties and girls can come in nice dresses. Bringing a date is advisable, but not necessary. I would like to bring myself a date. I have asked two of my friends so far, and they said they were going home or going home early to study. Is there a possibility of meeting a girl early this week and successfully asking her to the semi? I need some help about how to go about this. Thanks in advance.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does anyone think it can be? I think it can, but I am not sure about how to go about it.
 

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Why the he!! not?

Of course it can be done.

It just won't be easy.

Monday- Go out and find girls. Get numbers, a few numbers would be good.

Tuesday- See monday. Then tuesday night, call the girls, ask them for a short coffee date-Starbucks-anything that will not take more then 1 hour.

Sometime during the rest of the week, wed, thurs, have the date. While on date, if things go well, ask her out to the formal event.

Bottom line, it can be done. Just a matter of how much effort you want to put into it . . .

Good Luck,


-E.Nigma

P.S. - Me personally, I'm a lazy fvck, so if it was a month away, i'd do it, but why did you wait until you only had only one week?
 
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