"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Could these be the anwer to my prayers

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It has been years since my involvement with relationships. After my last breakup, I decided not to date and pay zero attention with girls who were so honest with their feelings toward me. The woman who broke my heart left a very big scar to me, which I considered to be the biggest reason why dating never crossed my mind. But just recently, my friends told me to think again and give love a second chance.

It hit me! While thinking about where to start, I decided to pray for that special woman. I did a lot of pleading to someone up above to give me the ideal partner I’m dreaming to have. While surfing for ways to date again, I saw a lot of suggestions to follow with. Some of these include going to party clubs, travel to meet foreign tours, going to sports events, etc. Are these helpful? Could these be the answer to my prayers?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Foreign dating tours are organ-harvesting schemes, usually by the Chinese mafia, sometimes the Russians. They set you up with a hooker who roofies you, and then you wake up missing a kidney.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bible_Belt said:
Foreign dating tours are organ-harvesting schemes, usually by the Chinese mafia, sometimes the Russians. They set you up with a hooker who roofies you, and then you wake up missing a kidney.
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Wow, and I thought dating sucked. I had no idea how bad it could be.

Hold on to those kidneys, boys!!!

No wait, escalate escalate escalate!:p
 
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Looking for love is a beta male mindset.

Alpha males seek respect and control.
 
zekko

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Bible_Belt said:
Foreign dating tours are organ-harvesting schemes, usually by the Chinese mafia, sometimes the Russians. They set you up with a hooker who roofies you, and then you wake up missing a kidney.
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Well, at least you wake up.
:cool:
 
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well, I'm still on the long process of deciding on what to do... but I think I'm getting there
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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