"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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could the dj-theory be wrong in some spots

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well,

dj theory tells us when a girl exhibits lack of interest, that you next her and move on .

I got back from meeting her. Most of the guys, would have told me that you should just "stamp" out your emotions and make logical decisions. Luckily , I investigated a bit further before giving up with out more evidence.

well, this waitor for the past two weeks ( 3 meetings exhibited mixed signals, reading her BO made me to think shes interested but her actions like she wouldn't talk to me, but just keep moving on . )

well, the thing is she values her work ( waiteress very much ) , .. she needs the income ..and she can't afford to get fired. Turns out that if she talks to me, she can get in trouble. And that causes her other problems. so that is why she was avoiding me these past three weeks. I didn't know any of this, as she never told me...

In fact, I didn't even realize this, until 3 minute before I was going to leave, I thought in my head " i m never going to see her again, I am dumping her I can't do it with this low interest'. I grabbed her kinda when she was free and asked her flat out... " hey slisten, i am unsure of your actions, are you interested in me, or do you want me to leave you alone ? " ,. .. is it at that point that she told me could get in trouble and that other customers will be pissed off if she spends all her time with me. WEll there you have it folks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't want to burst your bubble. But that doesn't really prove or disprove anything. It sounds to me that because she needs to keep her job, and is likely very good at it, she gave you a political answer.

If you wanted more solid evidence of your claim, you should ask her out, but not while she is working.
 
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