“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Could someone look over my V-day plans?

Brighty

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Its my first date with her (we're both 18 - so that rules out a few things) and I just want to make sure I've got my bases covered.

I'm picking her up at 4pm, she doesn't know where I'm taking her (She asked for a hint and I told her to guess.. she guessed wrong three times and now she's anticipating what the "surprise" is).

Problem is, I was going to take her ice skating but just yesterday they announced that the ice rink that's close by canceled public skating for tomorrow. So... I need a plan B.

The date needs to be creative - one of her guesses was dinner and a movie and I busted her balls for how uncreative the men who have taken her out before must have been if that was a legit guess from her - and it needs to be something memorable. I was thinking a walk through a park or something, weather permitting (but it probably won't permit considering the unpredictable weather here).

Also, I'm wondering if I should encompass dinner as well into the mix. Then again, I don't want to shell out that much money on this girl for our first date.

Anyway, any advice here is much appreciated, considering I'll need to have a game plan in less than 12 hours.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Badmannaz

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entering the 4th quarter....
1.movies....
2.cook her dinner
3. a walk in the park

or do something original just make sure u looked like you didnt try that hard...and have fun and laugh...and all that other great sh*t....its only da first date...dont look for anything but if she wants to kiss or f*ck i guess look for the signs!! lmao!
 

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Maybe you could find a comedy play (like a spoof play.) These are always real fun dates (and much better than movies.)

See if there are any symphonies or aggressive contemporary dance shows playing. Again these usually turn out to be fun dates.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
Maybe you could find a comedy play (like a spoof play.) These are always real fun dates (and much better than movies.)

See if there are any symphonies or aggressive contemporary dance shows playing. Again these usually turn out to be fun dates.

You know, I think that would be kind of interesting. I rummaged through the paper today and I came across two new options:

1. There's a public art showing today at 5 where a little part of town is completely closed off and people just walk through and go into the different art galleries and stuff. It's original and its kind of like going to a mall - there's always gonna be stuff to talk about.

2. We could go rock climbing, which would be a lot of fun for me but I'm not sure about her.

But let me check if there's a show or something playing. Although I'm leaning towards the art gallery.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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