"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Could Someone Help Make Me a Workout Plan?

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Could any of you guys help me out? I think an actual, organized plan would motivate me into exercising regularly. I post this info in another thread:

Age: 15
Height: 5'7"
Weight: 113

I want to bulk up as much as I can (or close to it), but I'm not exactly sure how much that would be, in terms of weight. I'm willing to excercise hard...I can't really prove it but you should believe me.

I especially want to target the upper body (pecs, biceps, triceps, etc.).


Thanks a lot to anyone who helps out..

EDIT: Oh and this might be a problem but the only exercise equipment I have at home are barbells and a bench press.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How much weight can you add to your barbell?
 

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You have all the equipment to do what you want.

Excersizes you should be doing:

Biceps : curls

Triceps : Tricep dips
Close hand push-ups

Pecs : Push ups

Shoulders: Shrugs.

You should be excersizing about 3 times a week.

By the way, whats your diet like?
 

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The kid is 15. He doesn't want to be doing any weightbearing exercises as he is not fully grown.

What I recommend is that you stick to push ups, chin ups, dips and do some sprinting and running. The first three will give you some nice upper body development, and the last two will give your legs a bit of a workout.

Eat lots of food-at your age it will all go to muscle: lots of protein, milk, rice, pasta, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sprinting and running
Arn't these detremental to bulking, as they burn calories, which is not what you want to do if you are bulking?
 

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Originally posted by Matt Rogers
The kid is 15. He doesn't want to be doing any weightbearing exercises as he is not fully grown.

What I recommend is that you stick to push ups, chin ups, dips and do some sprinting and running. The first three will give you some nice upper body development, and the last two will give your legs a bit of a workout.

Eat lots of food-at your age it will all go to muscle: lots of protein, milk, rice, pasta, etc.

I agree. I started trying to work out with weights at 14-15, not having anybody who could show or teach me proper technique, diet, rest, etc. I ended up doing more harm than good (shoulder, wrist, lower back injury).

At age 15 I don't think you need to worry about doing heavy lifting.

Focus on what Matt said. Play sports too.

In a year or two would be a better time to start hardcore lifting.
 

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sprinting and running aren't detrimental as long as you eat a lot. It also ensures that you gain less fat and more muscle.

At his age the main thing he needs to focus on is healthy eating and doing some form of sports and exercise. He needs lots of good food-and most kids that age don't eat enough protein, good carbs etc. and too much sugar.
 

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Well alright...thanks for the advice everyone. I think what I'll do is, when I lift I'll make sure it isn't too heavy (since I'm growing and all). Thanks.

But is there any particular plan I could follow? Do I just make it up as I go?
 

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hey check this out:


http://www.teenbodybuilding.com/brent2.htm

its good stuff
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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