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Could Someone Help Make Me a Workout Plan?

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Could any of you guys help me out? I think an actual, organized plan would motivate me into exercising regularly. I post this info in another thread:

Age: 15
Height: 5'7"
Weight: 113

I want to bulk up as much as I can (or close to it), but I'm not exactly sure how much that would be, in terms of weight. I'm willing to excercise hard...I can't really prove it but you should believe me.

I especially want to target the upper body (pecs, biceps, triceps, etc.).


Thanks a lot to anyone who helps out..

EDIT: Oh and this might be a problem but the only exercise equipment I have at home are barbells and a bench press.
 

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How much weight can you add to your barbell?
 

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You have all the equipment to do what you want.

Excersizes you should be doing:

Biceps : curls

Triceps : Tricep dips
Close hand push-ups

Pecs : Push ups

Shoulders: Shrugs.

You should be excersizing about 3 times a week.

By the way, whats your diet like?
 

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The kid is 15. He doesn't want to be doing any weightbearing exercises as he is not fully grown.

What I recommend is that you stick to push ups, chin ups, dips and do some sprinting and running. The first three will give you some nice upper body development, and the last two will give your legs a bit of a workout.

Eat lots of food-at your age it will all go to muscle: lots of protein, milk, rice, pasta, etc.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sprinting and running
Arn't these detremental to bulking, as they burn calories, which is not what you want to do if you are bulking?
 

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Originally posted by Matt Rogers
The kid is 15. He doesn't want to be doing any weightbearing exercises as he is not fully grown.

What I recommend is that you stick to push ups, chin ups, dips and do some sprinting and running. The first three will give you some nice upper body development, and the last two will give your legs a bit of a workout.

Eat lots of food-at your age it will all go to muscle: lots of protein, milk, rice, pasta, etc.

I agree. I started trying to work out with weights at 14-15, not having anybody who could show or teach me proper technique, diet, rest, etc. I ended up doing more harm than good (shoulder, wrist, lower back injury).

At age 15 I don't think you need to worry about doing heavy lifting.

Focus on what Matt said. Play sports too.

In a year or two would be a better time to start hardcore lifting.
 

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sprinting and running aren't detrimental as long as you eat a lot. It also ensures that you gain less fat and more muscle.

At his age the main thing he needs to focus on is healthy eating and doing some form of sports and exercise. He needs lots of good food-and most kids that age don't eat enough protein, good carbs etc. and too much sugar.
 

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Well alright...thanks for the advice everyone. I think what I'll do is, when I lift I'll make sure it isn't too heavy (since I'm growing and all). Thanks.

But is there any particular plan I could follow? Do I just make it up as I go?
 

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hey check this out:


http://www.teenbodybuilding.com/brent2.htm

its good stuff
 

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