Could some one please tell me . .

[WRX_is_like_SEX]

This is not a life threatening issue . . . But why o why, when you feel that inspite of an awkward situation, you feel you can be friends with a woman, but she choses to ignore you and tear up your phone number et'c et'c . .:kick:

Its not a major issue, but why?????Is it not easier to exchange salutations once in a while in the spirit of "no hard feelings" rather than just build a wall, and completely snub someone . . .

that is the only part where I have completely failed to understande females??? . . .

There's no specific example, as they will be too booring, but I am curious as a glimpse to this dark side of the female psyche!

Answers on a postcard!

 

[flexion_]

This is not a life threatening issue . . . But why o why, when you feel that inspite of an awkward situation, you feel you can be friends with a woman, but she choses to ignore you and tear up your phone number et'c...

...that is the only part where I have completely failed to understande females???

This isn't a female trait - both men and women do it. Trying to understand a female is a waste of time so stop with that line of thinking. They think emotionally - it doesn't make logical sense.

What more do you need to know? Do you want closure? Do you want her to explain what you did wrong? Do you want to know what trait she is looking for in a man and what things you can change so she will like you? News for you - ITS NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN.

She doesn't like you, doesn't want to spend time with you and thats all you need to know.

 

[Delta]

yep, men and women do it and usually it's to protect themselves.

it's in all the original pick up manual "The Art of Love" by Ovid (roman)... in the section called "cures for love", you have to get yourself AWAY from the other person. you have to separate yourself and physically remove yourself from their presence if at all possible.

the fact that you don't understand this means that you've never had your heart broken - where you don't want it to end but she ends it.

in such a case, you will INSTANTLY see the wisdom of just severing all ties and make yourself scarce.

you can't make a nightmare (or love) fade by constantly reliving it.

actually, it's easy as fvck to understand. dontcha think?

delta

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

From my experience to completely forget someone (as in not care not amnesia kind of forget) it takes 5 days of not seeing/talking to the girl and messing around with 2-3 girls in that timeframe.After that you'll see you couldn't care less about what happened to her and only remember the good times you had together.

 

[WRX_is_like_SEX]

Thanks for the replies lads . . .


I hear what your saying, and agree with most of it . . .No . .I am not necessarily talking about love or closure hear . . But I just think the snub, or the sulk in a very absolutist and maximalist measure to take . . .

Its like a policeman giving speeding tickets and having court summons issued for speeding 1 mph over the speed limit . . .Reasonable?

Its just from personal experience, I find snubbing (especially a girl) could snow ball into a very difficult situation which can be avoided . . .

Hert break you tell me . .These are once in a millenium events, and i always prefer to speak to a girl and be speaking terms after, rather than being mean . . .

I guess its called being assertive . .

 

[Kings_royalty]

but she choses to ignore you and tear up your phone number et'c et'c .


Let me as ask you this, did you do something to upset her to that point? Did you get caught banging her sister or something?

Either way, she's trying to be 'hurtful' by tearing up your number and ignoring you, and from what i can see, it's working. You need to forget this girl and the whole situation, drop it for good.

 

[WRX_is_like_SEX]

OK . .Just don't hit me with your handbag!:flowers:

I have done nothing, but there are certain situations that simply reach an impasse and become untenable . .

This was just a general question, but i see i have opened a whole can of worms here!