ok so i got flamed for these 2 threads: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=204736 http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=204732
i've been talking to this chick over whatsapp the past few days, trying to be careful not to be too available.. i almost feel im in the comfort connection building phase with her (without intentionally doing so), and she seems to enjoy talking to me (could just be cos she likes the attention - quite possibly) and we're finding out we have more and more in common and similarities.. i tried to make sure i didn't initiate the convo's too much. i mentioned she should go to so n so place with her bf... and she becomes quite straight with me almost doesn't wanna talk about him and just focus on us.. even at times she qualifies herself to me when i say im looking for x y z in a girl.. she qualifies herself saying she's x and y.
will i not know if she's branch swinging till i ask her out proper? she thinks i'm still seeing this girl and asks random questions about it to test me.. but i already mentioned to her that i think it's going to end when she moves away (which is soon) i feel i should suggest a meet up with her to really test the water as i'm concerned i'm already an orbiter by not meeting up with her.. do i really need to suggest to meet up or could she (real IOI)?
i've been talking to this chick over whatsapp the past few days, trying to be careful not to be too available.. i almost feel im in the comfort connection building phase with her (without intentionally doing so), and she seems to enjoy talking to me (could just be cos she likes the attention - quite possibly) and we're finding out we have more and more in common and similarities.. i tried to make sure i didn't initiate the convo's too much. i mentioned she should go to so n so place with her bf... and she becomes quite straight with me almost doesn't wanna talk about him and just focus on us.. even at times she qualifies herself to me when i say im looking for x y z in a girl.. she qualifies herself saying she's x and y.
will i not know if she's branch swinging till i ask her out proper? she thinks i'm still seeing this girl and asks random questions about it to test me.. but i already mentioned to her that i think it's going to end when she moves away (which is soon) i feel i should suggest a meet up with her to really test the water as i'm concerned i'm already an orbiter by not meeting up with her.. do i really need to suggest to meet up or could she (real IOI)?