Could it be worth a try?

[lizardking82]

Talked to this girl online, we hit it off quickly, she lives quite nearby to me. We started talkin; Skype, she sent nudes, talked dirty and all that, but then she was flaking about the meeting part so I just dropped her. Since that moment I did not contact her in any kind of way anymore, but kept her on social media because I did not care all that much frankly. She stopped engaging with my posts for quite a while, but (ding ding!) the young lady came back lately with likes all over Insta and Facebook and yesterday, she made a comment about my new profile pic in Facebook saying "great shot". Now, I just answered back "Thank you" because I had answered all the comments before that.

She is a definite 8, almost 9, great piece of ass, nice boobs, wants to **** but has got all this "insecurity" because about 8 months ago she went out of a 7 year relationship. She's 23. What do I do? Or nothing?

 

[dustmuffin]

Set up a date asap. Do no contact her so much. Seems like you were smothering her.

 

[EyeBRollin]

This is why we seize all incoming attention as an excuse to make a date. She's not interested. She's just looking for validation.

 

[devilkingx2]

do whatever you normally do to get women, if she flakes delete her

 

[dustmuffin]

This is why we seize all incoming attention as an excuse to make a date. She's not interested. She's just looking for validation.

You are probably right. It still wouldn't hurt to try one more time. If she flakes or declines move along.

 

[Jetleg]

I'd pass. i don't like these chicks who can't decide what they want.
I had a chick on my FB just like that. she would contact me and than ghost for months. flaked 2 times, so i deleted her.

Then we matched on tinder, i deleted her from the app.
Then we matched again, saying she wants to meet. i've sent her my phone number, never heard from her.

This has been going on for 2 years now, and i've never met her, but did not waste time on her either.

 

[bigneil]

At least a stripper gets paid to show herself nude. This girl just randomly shares nudes with someone she just met online and still doesn't even like him enough to go out?

 

[AlphaNate]

This has happened to me. It's just for attention.

Honestly, it kinda pissed me off. After seeing her smoking nudes, I wanted to ****. She knew this, of course, and probably never had any intention of meeting me.

 

[bigneil]

This has happened to me. It's just for attention.

Honestly, it kinda pissed me off. After seeing her smoking nudes, I wanted to ****. She knew this, of course, and probably never had any intention of meeting me.

Worst part is, those are photos from 5 years ago and she was probably never quite that hot even then.

 

[Bible_Belt]

she was flaking about the meeting part so I just dropped her.

That's the consensus advice, and I think it's where guys go wrong. I know the idea is that it is supposed to show lack of desperation, but I think it does the opposite. If you were getting all the pvssy you needed already, you would not be so quick to shut a girl down like that. Your impatience is coming from being frustrated, and that frustration is what she is sensing, which is what is keeping you from getting laid.

High-quality women will try to get under your skin with sh!t tests. I'm sure some are intentional, but I don't think most of them are. They do it unconsciously as a fast and effective way to screen guys. If you get upset or frustrated, then you're not higher value than her. Getting mad, whether at one woman or at women in general, is not productive, nor conducive to your own success.

 

[lizardking82]

That's the consensus advice, and I think it's where guys go wrong. I know the idea is that it is supposed to show lack of desperation, but I think it does the opposite. If you were getting all the pvssy you needed already, you would not be so quick to shut a girl down like that. Your impatience is coming from being frustrated, and that frustration is what she is sensing, which is what is keeping you from getting laid.

High-quality women will try to get under your skin with sh!t tests. I'm sure some are intentional, but I don't think most of them are. They do it unconsciously as a fast and effective way to screen guys. If you get upset or frustrated, then you're not higher value than her. Getting mad, whether at one woman or at women in general, is not productive, nor conducive to your own success.

I did not do it to show lack of desperation, nor did I get angry or mad. Yes, I got impatient because I got no time to deal with women who show you their tits and tell you they wanna be ****ed roughly by you just to end up flaking for the meeting part. That is pure bull**** and I have had a considerable number of cases going similarly that I DID follow up longer and with more patience, but the problem is women like this one are undecided and they just think I gotta hang around cause she got the *****, right? So I will hang around because oh "let;s worship the *****" and we gotta get that ***** under any cost. Well, no. I dropped her because she was wasting my time. In any normal mind, if I tell you I wanna **** you, it is not casual. It means I have thought about it, I have pictured it and when I say I will do it, unless something drastic happens, then I will. I know women work with feelings, but there is some logic to their actions as well and when faced with completely illogical actions, I tend to leave because I am allergic to bull**** and games like that.

In the contrary, I am getting quite some good ***** from two girls right now and because I am having a good time with them, I absolutely got no time for other women who are unsure of what they wanna do because for every unsure woman out there, there is another one right around the corner that will do it all for you. I want women who I can see wanna eat me up alive, not the ones who are not certain if they should take a walk or have a drink with me.

Btw, her quality is mainly in the looks. Personality wise, she's just as good as a spoiled 10 year old girl.

 

[devilkingx2]

That's the consensus advice, and I think it's where guys go wrong. I know the idea is that it is supposed to show lack of desperation, but I think it does the opposite. If you were getting all the pvssy you needed already, you would not be so quick to shut a girl down like that. Your impatience is coming from being frustrated, and that frustration is what she is sensing, which is what is keeping you from getting laid.

High-quality women will try to get under your skin with sh!t tests. I'm sure some are intentional, but I don't think most of them are. They do it unconsciously as a fast and effective way to screen guys. If you get upset or frustrated, then you're not higher value than her. Getting mad, whether at one woman or at women in general, is not productive, nor conducive to your own success.

I'm not sure if intentionally wasting a man's time to see if he puts up with it is an effective strategy for a woman to employ

 

[Trump]

Talked to this girl online, we hit it off quickly, she lives quite nearby to me. We started talkin; Skype, she sent nudes, talked dirty and all that, but then she was flaking about the meeting part so I just dropped her. Since that moment I did not contact her in any kind of way anymore, but kept her on social media because I did not care all that much frankly. She stopped engaging with my posts for quite a while, but (ding ding!) the young lady came back lately with likes all over Insta and Facebook and yesterday, she made a comment about my new profile pic in Facebook saying "great shot". Now, I just answered back "Thank you" because I had answered all the comments before that.

She is a definite 8, almost 9, great piece of ass, nice boobs, wants to **** but has got all this "insecurity" because about 8 months ago she went out of a 7 year relationship. She's 23. What do I do? Or nothing?

Bro is this real? A girl you met online, who is a 9/10, who started having unprotected sex at 15, who quickly sends you pictures of herself without her clothes on because you are so charming, likes some of your Facebook posts and comments, and you are confused about what to do?

I can't believe you guys are getting your head spun by a uneducated 23 year old girl who has gotten pounded 18 ways from Sunday from when she was 15.

Brutal.

 

[lizardking82]

Bro is this real? A girl you met online, who is a 9/10, who started having unprotected sex at 15, who quickly sends you pictures of herself without her clothes on because you are so charming, likes some of your Facebook posts and comments, and you are confused about what to do?

I can't believe you guys are getting your head spun by a uneducated 23 year old girl who has gotten pounded 18 ways from Sunday from when she was 15.

Brutal.

My head is not being spun LOL just wondering if it's worth another try since she started showing some interest again, that's all. Would not consider her for anything more than a booty call.

 

[Glassguy]

Ask her to hang out. If she doesn't EASILY commit, dump her from all social media.

If she acts unsure when you directly ask her to meet up, she is bored and only seeking validation from orbiters with no intent of hooking up.

 

[lizardking82]

Said hi to her, asked her directly if she wants to meet up, she started flaking with bull**** like "Hey, you cannot go on without writing to me and wanting to see me right?" kinda joking, I asked her a second time "Do you wanna meet up?", she said nope, I wished her a nice life and cut her loose like @Glassguy suggested. ****able, but stupid. Case closed

 

[Glassguy]

You have a few things to learn. One thing I've gotten very good at is making my intentions known by being direct and then putting the woman in a position to commit or cut herself loose. Wasting time is a pet peeve of mine.

When they dodge you asking them out, never ask again. Just move on to another one. Some may reach out later and you can re-evaluate the situation. But don't waste time on a chick that isn't EAGER to commit to your direct approach.

I had one recently tell me she wanted to get to know me better before meeting up. I didn't even respond back. Several days later she texted me again asking if we could text and get to know each other. "Nope, that's why I wanted to meet up. I'm a people person, not a texting person. If we kept texting now we would have less to talk about if we did meet up".

Women will text and message you out of boredom with no intent of meeting up. Eliminate thise girls quickly by asking them out.