"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Could it be due to Low Testosterone?

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I was pondering about this.

Some guys are aloof, some guys are emotional.

Some guys take control of their emotions easily, some guys find it near impossible, even though they are taught and advised by experts (They just cannot take it in! It may be just inbuilt and programmed)

During a breakup, some guys break free easily, some guys find it impossible
And yes, The difference between Pu$$y guys whom cling on to the past and the "true strong man" whom put it down and not look back again

Could it be due to Low Testosterone, that's causing guys behaving the above i've mentioned?

do guys with low Testosterone tend to be more emotional, or harder to control their emotions as compared to guys with higher testosterone?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I am confused by your question.
What are you asking ?
 

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Let me rephrase, do guys with low Testosterone tend to be more emotional, or harder to control their emotions as compared to guys with higher testosterone?

Pardon me for my poor english
 

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Ah, this is ambiguous.

Guys with extra testosterone don't cry when they are emotionally hurt. They punch walls and break their own knuckles. Both ways are too emotional. Neither way is dignified.
 

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Erm. I need to rephrase again. haha. What i mean is. do guys with low Testosterone tend to be more emotional (Negative, depressed emotions), or harder to control their emotions as compared to guys with higher testosterone
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It is easier to control their emotions, I think.

Look up "eunuchs". They are described as LESS emotional.

I don't think a severe reaction to a break up means lack of testosterone. I've known otherwise aggressive, macho guys who totally fall apart when they don't have the maturity to handle a break up.
 

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its possible that testosterone levels have a role to play.

but women have much lower testosterone levels than men and there are plenty of women who are less emotional than some men.

so i think a lot of it has to do with simply how you perceive the situation.

some people make lemonaide out of lemons and others squeeze the lemons and let the juice drip into their eyes.
 

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To be honest, I've just started taking Testosterone Supplements (Quite costly). To test out my behavior and how I control my emotions.

Anyway, that supplement is also for working out. So it should be a plus plus to me.
 

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joekerr31 said:
its possible that testosterone levels have a role to play.

but women have much lower testosterone levels than men and there are plenty of women who are less emotional than some men.

so i think a lot of it has to do with simply how you perceive the situation.

some people make lemonaide out of lemons and others squeeze the lemons and let the juice drip into their eyes.
It is maybe because in general, women have more options than men these days. Thus they tend to move on faster since that's always another chump to fill her void after a breakup.
 

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There are studies that show that low Testosterone levels in men correlate with depression, and lack of drive and ambition, and especially confidence.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DjVelvet said:
It is maybe because in general, women have more options than men these days. Thus they tend to move on faster since that's always another chump to fill her void after a breakup.

hehe, this can't be true. i know its commonly stated, but the population is pretty even at 50% male 50% female.

women can't have that many options more than men. :)
 

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Interceptor said:
There are studies that show that low Testosterone levels in men correlate with depression, and lack of drive and ambition, and especially confidence.
so kind of the equivalent of being around your woman when she's on the rag?
 

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I would think that high testosterone would lead to more stereotypically "male" emotions.

Remember that emotions don't just mean crying and the such... we all like to say that women are emotional and men are logical, but that's just crap. Women just have the emotions that men like to put down.

War is one of the most illogical things on earth, and is propogated almost entirely by men who are p.o.'d at their neighbours.
 
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