could i have done anything else?

big weezy

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i met this chick off facebook just now, she messaged me on monday out of the blue from her work account (she does the social media for some high end bar).. i messaged her a while ago tryna get her to meet up she had a bf, i said something about meeting up with me so she wouldn't miss out. so she broke up with her bf today, yesterday not sure so im thinking bingo rebound sex..

we arrange to meet at 8.30pm she asked to change venue i said we're going to where i planned as i didin't like the area she suggested. then she changed the time to 9.30pm as oppose to 8.30pm. so 20 mins before we're supposed to meet she asks me which station it's near, i tell her and instead of meeting me outside the town hall as i asked she said meet me outside the station cos she doesn't know where it is (i felt like i was just doing what she wanted supplicating even if it wasn't a big deal) she's 20mins late stuck on train says sorry i dont acknowledge.. so now we're 10 mins walk away from the bar and she goes off on a monologue about her country and how it's corrupt etc i couldn't get a word in.. she dominates all convo's every time i interrupt her it's to change the direction.

we sit down she's wearing a sexy dress, banging body, face is not as good as her pics but then she starts going on and on about her ex who she just broke up with and i'm waiting for her to stop talking so i can change the direction rather than be friendzone.. what do you guys do when she starts talking about her ex-bf and why they broke up? like how do i nip it in the bud? i compensated by doing extra kino.. i started touching up her legs cos her dress was short but she wouldn't shut up going on and on and the bar was closing that it was too late for me to make my move we only had like 40mins (we got there at 10.20pm) anyway she said something about meeting her friend after but she hasn't called her, she calls from my phone her friend doesn't pick up so she says something about if she cant meet i'll spend 30 mins more with you (me).. her friend calls back and i should have jsut ignored it and not given her the phone. my plan was to give her lift back to hers and hopefully kiss her before then and maybe get some rebound sex.

i dont sense attraction from her cos she's dominating the convo in an overbearing way.. how do you guys control the convo without interrupting them every 2 seconds? i walked her to where she was going to meet her friend, but towards the end she said you can leave me here i'll walk rest of way.. i said 'you sure?' she said yeah so i kiss her cheek good night she said something about me being nice i thought wtf friendzone.

how do i get this chick for rebound sex? is it even possible now..? im definitely not going to f about next time and will extend kino quicker.. if she shooots me down i'll quick. she said something about 'guys always tryna f her' i should have said so am i. annoyed now i didin'tt just ignore her friends call and do what i wanted.
 

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i think it's fair to say she just wanted someone to listen to her break up BS and i happened to be the one. maybe there was no physical attraction from her.. she had her own agenda.. waste my time and listen to her.

i'll quit next time if she gives me any BS, or cancelling because that''ll show low IL. she should have WANTED to spend half hour more with me and ditch her friend.. i can't figure out why, i mean my game was my game it wasn't bad i just couldn't get a single word in without interrupting her. i need to just be more sexually aggressive but i felt like she's 20 and im 30 and i have never met her before and i'm tryna grope her etc.. if i had a bit more time i would have kissed her neck.
 

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"I'm really not interested in hearing it. Don't you have a girlfriend you could talk to about this?"

Then look her dead in the eye and shut up til she says something.
 

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marmel75 said:
"I'm really not interested in hearing it. Don't you have a girlfriend you could talk to about this?"

Then look her dead in the eye and shut up til she says something.
what kind tone would you say it in? a slightly angry tone or stern face?

do you think it's probably over with this one?

i was thinking i might contact her to meet on Sunday and maybe that's too soon esp if she's only lukewarm or averagely interested. she's def prob going to get pounded this weekend by one of her party boys on fri/sat night so on Sun may not be into it, plus she has a big job starting mon.

it might be better if i leave it till mon to contact for weeknight, any cancellation from her and i'lll leave it.
 

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She text me yesterday at 5pm so I thought ok she might be interested but I'm suspicious she's just buttering me up to get info and advice suggestions for themes for the party she's organizing.

Bear in mind when she contacted me on Mon to meet she slipped in a question if I could help promote her bar she does social media for I told her I'm not the man for promotion and she needs a PR specialist for that, she said could I invite friends to like her page. I just said 'sure' nothing else haven't done so either.

Anyway she text me at 5pm yest: hey darling how're u today? :)'

My immediate thought was she might be interested but then she immediately foollowed up with 'I have a new task: organize a spanish party :)

Then, straight after 'can you help me with some ideas?'

I'm spanish originally, so she seems to be just buttering me up to get answers not actually texting me cos she's interested. I'm curious whether she would even have texted me at all if she didn't coincidentally have this task to do. If she was interested she could have used it as an excuse to contact me so I ask her out again but that doesn't seem to be the case.

I text back:

'So when are you going to wear another sexy dress for me and dedicate a whoie night to me? ;)

Use colors of the flag and matador themes etc'

She texts: haha I don't know I let u know it might be tomorrow if it's ok'
Then: thank u very muÇh if other ideas suggestions come up let me know I want it to be great


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Her english isn't that great so I mistook her 'might be tomorrow' as to meet tomorrow when I realized after she meant she'd let me know tomorrow.

I sent something back about only if she dedicates the good half of the night to me as I don't like sharing her with her gf's as I was an only child (in joke from date about only children not liking to share) and that I looked forward to seeing the sexy outfit she had in store for me tomorrow (on assumption she meant to meet tomorrow not 'let me know' tomorrow which I realized later) no response.

My assumption is right that she just wanted advice so was buttering me up?

I feel like she's just tryna use me for info so is being super nice and not actually interested and seeing if I'll bend to her demands.
 
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