"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Could do with some help

WesCottII

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(sorry if this is anything else, but I figured, as it's happening in highschool, it should go in here)

Right, so here's the story.

Back in May I met HB9 at a concert, talked to her, got her number, went on a few dates, ended up sleeping together....the usual.
At the time I was hanging around a bunch of losers, who stopped me getting with girls, didn't invite me anywhere (got loads better mates now), so I didn't tell them, knowing the kind of crap I'd get ("is she real"....."let's meet her") I didn't tell them.
Over the months, on msn she ended up meeting them. Here's the problem, one guy has gone way over the top to try and prove she isn't real. He :



  • Scanned both our computers to see if we had the same IP. We didn't, but he's telling people we do
  • We've been online at the same time, but he's accrediting that to me installing two version of messenger
  • Told a "popular" girl at school (don't care about her), that I'd "hacked" her Msn account (....coz I've got nothing better to do)
  • Told a good female friend (and potential girlfriend), that I'd told everyone we were going out, when we wern't

He's now got a gay little sidekick, who he's let in on my "secret" and now the pair of them are following me about, trying to prove she isn't real.

I'd just introduce her to shut him up, but she's gone to London to Uni in London, then she's going to the USA, and I can only contact her via e-mail or Msn.

Both of the guys have never had a g/f, or to knowledge have got laid. I don't really care about their opinions, but it's starting to annoy me, the lenghts they are going to, to disprove me. I attribute most of it to jeleousy, I'm great with women, popular, star of the rugby team :cheer: .

What can I do? Coz I know they're gonna give me sh!t tommorow.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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anile8

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are those fags that are teasing you buff? Well more to the point could you take them in a fight. But you dont wonna get in heaps of trouble at school for starting a fight.

You could say something like, At least i show a proactive interest in girls. Anway, i bet your the catcher( point to the smaller one ).
You spend all your time trying to piss me off, that's why you've never amounted to anything.
hope this helps
 

WesCottII

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Nah....they're arn't buff. One's bigger than me, but he's overwieght and slow. I hit the gym 4 times a week, and play rugby. The other doesn't do any excersize at all. I could probably take them both, but it's not worth the trouble.

Thanks anyway.
 
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