"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Could do with some help

WesCottII

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(sorry if this is anything else, but I figured, as it's happening in highschool, it should go in here)

Right, so here's the story.

Back in May I met HB9 at a concert, talked to her, got her number, went on a few dates, ended up sleeping together....the usual.
At the time I was hanging around a bunch of losers, who stopped me getting with girls, didn't invite me anywhere (got loads better mates now), so I didn't tell them, knowing the kind of crap I'd get ("is she real"....."let's meet her") I didn't tell them.
Over the months, on msn she ended up meeting them. Here's the problem, one guy has gone way over the top to try and prove she isn't real. He :



  • Scanned both our computers to see if we had the same IP. We didn't, but he's telling people we do
  • We've been online at the same time, but he's accrediting that to me installing two version of messenger
  • Told a "popular" girl at school (don't care about her), that I'd "hacked" her Msn account (....coz I've got nothing better to do)
  • Told a good female friend (and potential girlfriend), that I'd told everyone we were going out, when we wern't

He's now got a gay little sidekick, who he's let in on my "secret" and now the pair of them are following me about, trying to prove she isn't real.

I'd just introduce her to shut him up, but she's gone to London to Uni in London, then she's going to the USA, and I can only contact her via e-mail or Msn.

Both of the guys have never had a g/f, or to knowledge have got laid. I don't really care about their opinions, but it's starting to annoy me, the lenghts they are going to, to disprove me. I attribute most of it to jeleousy, I'm great with women, popular, star of the rugby team :cheer: .

What can I do? Coz I know they're gonna give me sh!t tommorow.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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anile8

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are those fags that are teasing you buff? Well more to the point could you take them in a fight. But you dont wonna get in heaps of trouble at school for starting a fight.

You could say something like, At least i show a proactive interest in girls. Anway, i bet your the catcher( point to the smaller one ).
You spend all your time trying to piss me off, that's why you've never amounted to anything.
hope this helps
 

WesCottII

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Nah....they're arn't buff. One's bigger than me, but he's overwieght and slow. I hit the gym 4 times a week, and play rugby. The other doesn't do any excersize at all. I could probably take them both, but it's not worth the trouble.

Thanks anyway.
 
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