Relationship and attraction strategies is always a template that were already programmed in us since our childhood.
Those old sayings, that water seeks its own level, and birds of a feather flock together are really true. We are in fact, magnetized to individuals who precisely match our own level of emotional development.
Sane with sane, insane with insane kind of like.
PUA to me is a crap, they just mimicking to be these insane guy to get into pants of hotter crazy sex damage girl. Closeness were avoided at all cost to win these girls, no matter how much you tried to keep the girl by playing games it will never works in a long run, you get cracking in your head and become a nut job too.