RickTheToad
Moderator
A dude was talking to me at the bar and seemed to just go through the ladies every few months or so. He said I am just done with them emotionally. I cannot seem to build a bond or feelings for or with them aside from lust. I said, what are you looking for? He ultimately admitted he'd prefer a LTR (early 40's), but he just allow himself to build a bond. I'm guessing he's been hurt too many times before he's protecting himself or something. He enjoys them, but it's a means to an end. I suggested he come to the forum here, so we'll see. He just feels empty inside it seems.