"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cougars: do I leave my number or what

PapiChulo

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I had a very pleasant cougar experience in which I was asked for the number after a long chat and some sex hints (I offered to swap the numbers at the first place). She says she has to sleep on it, then call (she had some friends with her too, so...)

She is a tight 53 year old with money, I am 25 - a sexy uni student.That's alright to wait for the call instead of calling yourself, because it's role reversal, right?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Strelok

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Tight 53 yrs old with money?
No offence but even a 50+ yrs old man avoid 50+yrs old women,and most of all who cares about the money.
You're 25,you should game girls in their 20s.

About your question,if I was you I would wait for her to call because having a 53yrs old women that doesn't pick up the phone or doesn't return calls would really screw my confidence and nowadays that wouldn't be so surprising.
 

PapiChulo

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No kidding

this one is tight as a drum, she looks 40 tops,a very sexy and confident gal. Did I mention that I can actually lead a nice intellectual conversation with her, and then rock her in the sack. I would seriously enjoy a casual relation with her, and some free stuff and no bull**** like with the younger pusssies.

I am not looking for an LTR with a young chick at the current moment. And that returning and not returning calls doesnt bother me anymore.....I am more concerned with the formality of the process.
 

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I see your point,never happened to me but I'm sure some of the more experienced guys will be able to give you some good suggestions.
Hope you don't mind if I ask you where did you meet her and who did the first step.
 

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Met her at the local #1 spot for cougars known as Sandbar near by Downtown Vancouver aka "Cougarville", saw her scoping out the room and when she went past me I saw that she carried herself as if to make her noticed. I still had to approach myself, and she reciprocated with a conversation, at least 3 **** tests and some funky questions to test my intentions. In the middle of the convo when she said she lived 5 minutes away and asked me what I would do if she had to stumble there with me- I though I was about to get laid. Well, she seems to be pretty classy, we'll see where it leads.

I also hit on two 20 year olds and had some nice eye sex with one of them, but was let down by my drunk friend, one ****-blocker girlfriend, and sudden arrival of the ****-blocker's boyfriend. Happy that I turned out to be bigger than him, sad that a really nice chick got a way.

Good night
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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