Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Cougars: do I leave my number or what

PapiChulo

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I had a very pleasant cougar experience in which I was asked for the number after a long chat and some sex hints (I offered to swap the numbers at the first place). She says she has to sleep on it, then call (she had some friends with her too, so...)

She is a tight 53 year old with money, I am 25 - a sexy uni student.That's alright to wait for the call instead of calling yourself, because it's role reversal, right?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tight 53 yrs old with money?
No offence but even a 50+ yrs old man avoid 50+yrs old women,and most of all who cares about the money.
You're 25,you should game girls in their 20s.

About your question,if I was you I would wait for her to call because having a 53yrs old women that doesn't pick up the phone or doesn't return calls would really screw my confidence and nowadays that wouldn't be so surprising.
 

PapiChulo

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No kidding

this one is tight as a drum, she looks 40 tops,a very sexy and confident gal. Did I mention that I can actually lead a nice intellectual conversation with her, and then rock her in the sack. I would seriously enjoy a casual relation with her, and some free stuff and no bull**** like with the younger pusssies.

I am not looking for an LTR with a young chick at the current moment. And that returning and not returning calls doesnt bother me anymore.....I am more concerned with the formality of the process.
 

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I see your point,never happened to me but I'm sure some of the more experienced guys will be able to give you some good suggestions.
Hope you don't mind if I ask you where did you meet her and who did the first step.
 

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Met her at the local #1 spot for cougars known as Sandbar near by Downtown Vancouver aka "Cougarville", saw her scoping out the room and when she went past me I saw that she carried herself as if to make her noticed. I still had to approach myself, and she reciprocated with a conversation, at least 3 **** tests and some funky questions to test my intentions. In the middle of the convo when she said she lived 5 minutes away and asked me what I would do if she had to stumble there with me- I though I was about to get laid. Well, she seems to be pretty classy, we'll see where it leads.

I also hit on two 20 year olds and had some nice eye sex with one of them, but was let down by my drunk friend, one ****-blocker girlfriend, and sudden arrival of the ****-blocker's boyfriend. Happy that I turned out to be bigger than him, sad that a really nice chick got a way.

Good night
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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