"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cougar hunting in NYC

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Alright NYC guys. Where are the best places for a guy in his early 20's to go cougar hunting in Manhattan? I don't even know where to start or what the best approach would be, all I know is that they're definitely out there and they're looking for trouble. Tips/pointers/experiences/stories definitely welcome.

While we're on the topic, what's the minimum age to qualify as a cougar? 30? 35? 40?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SilverExplosion said:
Alright NYC guys. Where are the best places for a guy in his early 20's to go cougar hunting in Manhattan? I don't even know where to start or what the best approach would be, all I know is that they're definitely out there and they're looking for trouble. Tips/pointers/experiences/stories definitely welcome.

While we're on the topic, what's the minimum age to qualify as a cougar? 30? 35? 40?
I looooove MILFS! I don't particularly know of any places in Manhattan though. I would try the hotel bars in Manhattan.

Anyway, the minimum age for me that women qualify as cougars/MILFS, is around 43 and up. In my opinion, that's when they start having that MILFY look to them.
 

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I just recently remembered this past week, try the "W" Hotel on Lexington and 49th. I think it's 49th. It's one of those streets in the 40's. I went there with a buddy of mine back in the spring of 2006, where he cold-approached a hot MILF. She was with her friend. She ended up loosing interest in him and ended up talking to me. At the end of the night , I suggested to the MILF we hang out and get a bite to eat, to which she was all for. But her friend totally c*ck-blocked me, telling her, "Let's go", and kept persisting, to which the MILF eventually caved in. I could've belted the sh*t out of her dumb friend. This MILF was hot, in her late 40's/early 50's. What a face and bod. I could pitch a tent as I write.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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