"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cougar hunting in NYC

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Alright NYC guys. Where are the best places for a guy in his early 20's to go cougar hunting in Manhattan? I don't even know where to start or what the best approach would be, all I know is that they're definitely out there and they're looking for trouble. Tips/pointers/experiences/stories definitely welcome.

While we're on the topic, what's the minimum age to qualify as a cougar? 30? 35? 40?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SilverExplosion said:
Alright NYC guys. Where are the best places for a guy in his early 20's to go cougar hunting in Manhattan? I don't even know where to start or what the best approach would be, all I know is that they're definitely out there and they're looking for trouble. Tips/pointers/experiences/stories definitely welcome.

While we're on the topic, what's the minimum age to qualify as a cougar? 30? 35? 40?
I looooove MILFS! I don't particularly know of any places in Manhattan though. I would try the hotel bars in Manhattan.

Anyway, the minimum age for me that women qualify as cougars/MILFS, is around 43 and up. In my opinion, that's when they start having that MILFY look to them.
 

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I just recently remembered this past week, try the "W" Hotel on Lexington and 49th. I think it's 49th. It's one of those streets in the 40's. I went there with a buddy of mine back in the spring of 2006, where he cold-approached a hot MILF. She was with her friend. She ended up loosing interest in him and ended up talking to me. At the end of the night , I suggested to the MILF we hang out and get a bite to eat, to which she was all for. But her friend totally c*ck-blocked me, telling her, "Let's go", and kept persisting, to which the MILF eventually caved in. I could've belted the sh*t out of her dumb friend. This MILF was hot, in her late 40's/early 50's. What a face and bod. I could pitch a tent as I write.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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