"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Correlation of Crazy Hair Colors with Mental Disturbance

Driggs

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This question may have been recently asked and if so my apologies. But has anyone noticed that women with wildly colored hair (eg. purple, pink) tend to be much crazier even than the general population of females? Is this a narcissist thing? Sure seems like a great way to attract attention, and pink is a sexual attractant color for humans and other primates.

I've been doing a mental inventory of the women I've dated and all-- ALL-- of the ones who had consistently crazy dye jobs were totally bonkers. Of the women I have dated who were really nuts, only a few didn't sport hair colors that aren't standard issue.

The same thing may be true of large numbers of tats, or exceptionally peculiar or ugly tats. Tats fall under the category of self-harm in BPD diagnosis. With all of the dye job cases there were numerous other "co-morbid" factors including cutting, suicide attempts, actual suicides, drug use, rage problems, etc etc etc etc etc.

Nowadays I would give these women the brushoff and never look back. I'm thinking of putting crazy hair colors down in the "definite no" column.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Driggs said:
Tats fall under the category of self-harm in BPD diagnosis. With all of the dye job cases there were numerous other "co-morbid" factors including cutting, suicide attempts, actual suicides, drug use, rage problems, etc etc etc etc etc.
UMMM WTF? I have tatts & piercings, I have had crazy hair colours, mohawks shaved head (which I have now with a big beard) I have never once thought of cutting or suicide. yeah I smoke some pot now and then 2-3 times a year but a lot of heavier drug users I know don't dye their hair have tatts or piercings. As far as rage and anger problems... a lot of people have that in general.

I would far rather be dating one of these psychopaths than a peroxide blonde barbie with her head up her a$$ at least they are more fun and have a better personality
 

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interesting topic lol :D

as i saw it, girls with unusual body accessories, weird hair colors included, are more open, rebels, or very low self esteem. each of them means easier lay ;)
they are not my type though for LTR / public encounters since i mostly meet with business people, and it would be weird to go to the opera with deviant looking girls, but those i have experience with were crazy fun, one was a psycho though, and one is now a single mother (not my child lol)
usually deviant looks / body accessories are compensations for something.
not judging though. as the song goes: i like all bytches.
 
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