This question may have been recently asked and if so my apologies. But has anyone noticed that women with wildly colored hair (eg. purple, pink) tend to be much crazier even than the general population of females? Is this a narcissist thing? Sure seems like a great way to attract attention, and pink is a sexual attractant color for humans and other primates.
I've been doing a mental inventory of the women I've dated and all-- ALL-- of the ones who had consistently crazy dye jobs were totally bonkers. Of the women I have dated who were really nuts, only a few didn't sport hair colors that aren't standard issue.
The same thing may be true of large numbers of tats, or exceptionally peculiar or ugly tats. Tats fall under the category of self-harm in BPD diagnosis. With all of the dye job cases there were numerous other "co-morbid" factors including cutting, suicide attempts, actual suicides, drug use, rage problems, etc etc etc etc etc.
Nowadays I would give these women the brushoff and never look back. I'm thinking of putting crazy hair colors down in the "definite no" column.
I've been doing a mental inventory of the women I've dated and all-- ALL-- of the ones who had consistently crazy dye jobs were totally bonkers. Of the women I have dated who were really nuts, only a few didn't sport hair colors that aren't standard issue.
The same thing may be true of large numbers of tats, or exceptionally peculiar or ugly tats. Tats fall under the category of self-harm in BPD diagnosis. With all of the dye job cases there were numerous other "co-morbid" factors including cutting, suicide attempts, actual suicides, drug use, rage problems, etc etc etc etc etc.
Nowadays I would give these women the brushoff and never look back. I'm thinking of putting crazy hair colors down in the "definite no" column.
