“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Coquettish behavior.

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There is this girl who I know used to like me a couple years ago. Last year, going to college messed things up for me. A girl who was sort of friends with her told me this. This girl who told me is one of those who knows everything about everyone. The girl I liked is a flirt though. She also has a self-esteem probelm, even though she is popular.

The other day I saw her and we talked for a while. I noticed that she couldn't really look me in the eye for very long when we talked. I'm wondering if she felt shy around me because she still had feelings for me. She sort of had that nervous face she had when she asked me to prom in eleventh grade. I just got this werid feeling after our encounter that I could possibly have a shot with her again.

If I asked her to go somewhere with me, she'd say yes. I only have three months to try something. My biggest probelm with her is that I know she's a flirt and a flatterer. I don't know how to deal with those kinds of people. Any opinions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First off, that is NOT coquettish behavior. Coquettish behavior is when a girl is deliberately hot/cold to you. She is just nervous and likes you.



Only have 3 months to try something? By 3 months, you should be sick of her.


Here's how you deal with her behavior.

Ask her out
Kiss her
Take off her clothes
 
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She seems to flatter everyone I see at parties and is like a flirt.

If a girl cannot hold eye contact for long, I'm wondering what it means. I heard that they are supposed to be the ones intimidated by us, not the other way around. Real men make women feel that the man is in control and stuff... I've listened to the CDs from David DeAngelo. I'm just wondering what to do. I'm wondering if there is reason to suspect that she may like me and what to do with that.
 
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I have nothing to say regarding your situation, I just thought I'd mention that I'm impressed that someone on this board knows what "coquettish" means.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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S1NN3R said:
I have nothing to say regarding your situation, I just thought I'd mention that I'm impressed that someone on this board knows what "coquettish" means.
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lol i didnt until now :)
 
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doesn't matter, get her on a few dates and you will find out for yourself.
 
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She's just one of those people who flirts and flatters alot. Its so hard to tell when people like that mean anything. How do you deal with girls like that? Or even guys who are flatterers?
 
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So no one else in this forum wants to know about how to deal with girls who are total flirts?

Everyone knows a girl who is a huge flirt, yet there are guys out there who are able to tag them.

Other than "ignoring her" or "playing hard to get," what are these guys doing to them?

I've read this forum, read the bible, and I'd listen to David DeAngelo's tapes. All are good. Its worked for me on girls I'm not into. How do I make it work on the flirty ones?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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