Cope myth: "Women hit the wall & men only get better with age"

[GFella]

Or a woman

Or a dude lol at the coping of rejects

 

[Spaz]

A virgin still >>>> a Spazcel.

U big mad

I've hurt ur feelings.

Once again, as in another thread not a minute ago, I sincerely apologise.

The intent remains the same, for you to finally come out of the rut you place urself in.

 

[GFella]

 

[RickTheToad]

Cry more.

Cope more shut in.

You're never going to make it kid. For shame.

Only a virgin or one who is smart but became too smart and turned looney could produce such a thread.

LOL. @Spaz @GFella, chill dudes. No need to make things personal.

 

[biggoal]

I think some women, I should say girls look better when they get a bit older. I mean like an 18 year old when they're

 

[Snag87]

I think some women, I should say girls look better when they get a bit older. I mean like an 18 year old when they're

Agreed. I think peak attractiveness is 19-24.

 

[BeExcellent]

Its funny. There are always outliers. Strive to be an outlier. The pot-bellied bald men who let themselves go are repulsive. Sorry but they are. Just like frumpy, frowny women who act bitter and entitled are repulsive. We've all seen both types.

At 50 I still look very good. I've never smoked, set my career up such that I get plenty of sleep (its called beauty sleep for a reason folks), I eat healthy (no processed, sugary, refined foods), I work out, remain slender (5'6" and 112 lbs. this am), drink very moderately, avoid the sun (nothing ages Caucasian women faster than over exposure to the sun), I wear very little and many times NO make up, and have healthy life habits. I am also blessed with good genetics and a naturally mesomorph slim/althletic body type.

My avatar is a photo taken at age 49. About a year ago I started with Botox in the forehead to avoid wrinkles (as I don't have wrinkles to speak of but a bit of prevent defense is appropriate at my age)...I use carefully selected skin care products to nourish my skin (100% organic non-refined coconut oil being one) and I eat enough fats (avocado, nuts, etc) to keep my skin supple. Again, good genetics help...

I'm careful about medicines (I take none except a multivitamin) and am extremely careful about what I eat. Do not take any more medication than absolutely necessary. Drink lots of water on the regular.

All these habits over decades have enabled me to keep from hitting the wall. I'm desirable now and men approach me constantly. Do the 20-30 year olds still look? Yes at times they do, but really that isn't my target age bracket anyway so it doesn't matter. I like men around my own age (and am dating a very hot 48 year old who is into me and has been for 2 years). Am I 25? No. But I have healthier hair and a better figure than many many women half my age. Its part genetics and part discipline and healthy habits.

We ALL HIT THE WALL at some point. Accept that fact gracefully, understand it, establish healthy life habits early on to properly care for your looks and body, and by the time you reach my age you'll see a tremendous difference between yourself and your peers. That way you'll enjoy the greatest longevity of your youthfulness.

Attitude is also important. A joyful, thankful attitude toward life and a zest for living will help keep you young. Nothing ages people like bitterness and resentment.

Some men age well others age horrid. Same as women.

Cheers gents!

 

[biggoal]

Its funny. There are always outliers. Strive to be an outlier. The pot-bellied bald men who let themselves go are repulsive. Sorry but they are. Just like frumpy, frowny women who act bitter and entitled are repulsive. We've all seen both types.

At 50 I still look very good. I've never smoked, set my career up such that I get plenty of sleep (its called beauty sleep for a reason folks), I eat healthy (no processed, sugary, refined foods), I work out, remain slender (5'6" and 112 lbs. this am), drink very moderately, avoid the sun (nothing ages Caucasian women faster than over exposure to the sun), I wear very little and many times NO make up, and have healthy life habits. I am also blessed with good genetics and a naturally mesomorph slim/althletic body type.

My avatar is a photo taken at age 49. About a year ago I started with Botox in the forehead to avoid wrinkles (as I don't have wrinkles to speak of but a bit of prevent defense is appropriate at my age)...I use carefully selected skin care products to nourish my skin (100% organic non-refined coconut oil being one) and I eat enough fats (avocado, nuts, etc) to keep my skin supple. Again, good genetics help...

I'm careful about medicines (I take none except a multivitamin) and am extremely careful about what I eat. Do not take any more medication than absolutely necessary. Drink lots of water on the regular.

All these habits over decades have enabled me to keep from hitting the wall. I'm desirable now and men approach me constantly. Do the 20-30 year olds still look? Yes at times they do, but really that isn't my target age bracket anyway so it doesn't matter. I like men around my own age (and am dating a very hot 48 year old who is into me and has been for 2 years). Am I 25? No. But I have healthier hair and a better figure than many many women half my age. Its part genetics and part discipline and healthy habits.

We ALL HIT THE WALL at some point. Accept that fact gracefully, understand it, establish healthy life habits early on to properly care for your looks and body, and by the time you reach my age you'll see a tremendous difference between yourself and your peers. That way you'll enjoy the greatest longevity of your youthfulness.

Attitude is also important. A joyful, thankful attitude toward life and a zest for living will help keep you young. Nothing ages people like bitterness and resentment.

Some men age well others age horrid. Same as women.

Cheers gents!

You're very pretty for your age! Heck, I'd go out with you

 

[17 shots]

Older women are always giving me that look like hey young man, I'll feed you, and I know what to do with you. Let me touch you when I talk to you, because I'm an older woman who uses kino

I'll beat the brakes off some old kitty... idgaf come at me

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I think Kellyanne Conway and Melania Trump are hot.

Kellyanne Conway is a guilty pleasure and I displeased to admit that even to close friends lol. I don't understand the attraction, she gives off that nasty milf vibe, secret sex addict vibe. Maybe it's her sassy mouth

 

[Focal core]

Its funny. There are always outliers. Strive to be an outlier. The pot-bellied bald men who let themselves go are repulsive. Sorry but they are. Just like frumpy, frowny women who act bitter and entitled are repulsive. We've all seen both types.

At 50 I still look very good. I've never smoked, set my career up such that I get plenty of sleep (its called beauty sleep for a reason folks), I eat healthy (no processed, sugary, refined foods), I work out, remain slender (5'6" and 112 lbs. this am), drink very moderately, avoid the sun (nothing ages Caucasian women faster than over exposure to the sun), I wear very little and many times NO make up, and have healthy life habits. I am also blessed with good genetics and a naturally mesomorph slim/althletic body type.

My avatar is a photo taken at age 49. About a year ago I started with Botox in the forehead to avoid wrinkles (as I don't have wrinkles to speak of but a bit of prevent defense is appropriate at my age)...I use carefully selected skin care products to nourish my skin (100% organic non-refined coconut oil being one) and I eat enough fats (avocado, nuts, etc) to keep my skin supple. Again, good genetics help...

I'm careful about medicines (I take none except a multivitamin) and am extremely careful about what I eat. Do not take any more medication than absolutely necessary. Drink lots of water on the regular.

All these habits over decades have enabled me to keep from hitting the wall. I'm desirable now and men approach me constantly. Do the 20-30 year olds still look? Yes at times they do, but really that isn't my target age bracket anyway so it doesn't matter. I like men around my own age (and am dating a very hot 48 year old who is into me and has been for 2 years). Am I 25? No. But I have healthier hair and a better figure than many many women half my age. Its part genetics and part discipline and healthy habits.

We ALL HIT THE WALL at some point. Accept that fact gracefully, understand it, establish healthy life habits early on to properly care for your looks and body, and by the time you reach my age you'll see a tremendous difference between yourself and your peers. That way you'll enjoy the greatest longevity of your youthfulness.

Attitude is also important. A joyful, thankful attitude toward life and a zest for living will help keep you young. Nothing ages people like bitterness and resentment.

Some men age well others age horrid. Same as women.

Cheers gents!

Mem with all due respect the looks you have due to gene u inherited, you are what they call a Fine wine, not all women are lucky as you are, most of the women fade and lost their glow at 30s, even before then, gain weight with lots of emotional baggage.. If you can maintained that emotionally healthy female type you will be thriving in your life.. But recently of your post being attached to men who is incapable reciprocated and terrified with closeness has exposed some of the flaw you have, due to traumatic childhood experience you might not remembered, you can do better in the future.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Any general rule that is mostly true, but only in a general sense, can be used an excuse for failure, or an excuse for not trying.

This idea that women have less sexual value, all else equal, as they age, and men CAN have more sexual value, all else equal, as they age, (provided they continue to get more experience, wealth generating capacities, social skills etc.) is generally true.

But many guys cling to this because for women, the decrease in sex value happens more or less automatically, due purely to biology.

On the other hand, men don't AUTOMATICALLY get better as they age.

They can, but it takes consistent work, something few women are willing to do.

It ends up being just a general failure-weakness-laziness covering projection.

Similar to one of the laws of power, to condemn that which you can't get.

General rules are either guidelines for success, or excuses for failure.

However you feel like using them.

 

[AJ84]

I agree that the wall hits men later than women.

But many men unfortunately squander this advantage by letting themselves go in their 20s/30s (beer guts and man boobs), and some think that the ‘women age like milk men like wine’ theory applies to them, when in their case it actually doesn’t, if they look like a busted can of biscuits.

Being fit and making an effort to look good. When men do that then yes the wall is further away.

 

[AJ84]

Its funny. There are always outliers. Strive to be an outlier. The pot-bellied bald men who let themselves go are repulsive. Sorry but they are. Just like frumpy, frowny women who act bitter and entitled are repulsive. We've all seen both types.

At 50 I still look very good. I've never smoked, set my career up such that I get plenty of sleep (its called beauty sleep for a reason folks), I eat healthy (no processed, sugary, refined foods), I work out, remain slender (5'6" and 112 lbs. this am), drink very moderately, avoid the sun (nothing ages Caucasian women faster than over exposure to the sun), I wear very little and many times NO make up, and have healthy life habits. I am also blessed with good genetics and a naturally mesomorph slim/althletic body type.

My avatar is a photo taken at age 49. About a year ago I started with Botox in the forehead to avoid wrinkles (as I don't have wrinkles to speak of but a bit of prevent defense is appropriate at my age)...I use carefully selected skin care products to nourish my skin (100% organic non-refined coconut oil being one) and I eat enough fats (avocado, nuts, etc) to keep my skin supple. Again, good genetics help...

I'm careful about medicines (I take none except a multivitamin) and am extremely careful about what I eat. Do not take any more medication than absolutely necessary. Drink lots of water on the regular.

All these habits over decades have enabled me to keep from hitting the wall. I'm desirable now and men approach me constantly. Do the 20-30 year olds still look? Yes at times they do, but really that isn't my target age bracket anyway so it doesn't matter. I like men around my own age (and am dating a very hot 48 year old who is into me and has been for 2 years). Am I 25? No. But I have healthier hair and a better figure than many many women half my age. Its part genetics and part discipline and healthy habits.

We ALL HIT THE WALL at some point. Accept that fact gracefully, understand it, establish healthy life habits early on to properly care for your looks and body, and by the time you reach my age you'll see a tremendous difference between yourself and your peers. That way you'll enjoy the greatest longevity of your youthfulness.

Attitude is also important. A joyful, thankful attitude toward life and a zest for living will help keep you young. Nothing ages people like bitterness and resentment.

Some men age well others age horrid. Same as women.

Cheers gents!

I saw this stunning young woman on a beach a few weeks ago. Could not have been older than 25. Flawless skin, flawless.

She was smoking a cigarette. She was also applying baby oil to her arms to get a better tan. That perfect skin, ruining it!

I wanted to snatch the cigarette from her lips and dose her in SPF 60 sunscreen!

 

[Spaz]

Plenty of people have different versions of the wall.

Let's get it right.

The wall is basically women's inability to pull Chad (Charming, Handsome And Driven) men as they once did when in their teens or 20's.

While it's true that some very attractive women can push back the wall as @BeExcellent suggests but they will get lesser and lesser attention from Chad's as they age into their 30's.

The reason is really simple, men are able to be Chad's well into their 40's and some into their 50's, with the ability to pull the most fertile of women, those within the age range of 21-24, that's when their skin is the most supple and with good muscle tones hence their beauty.

Now there are attractive women in their 30's, 40's and even 50's and they are pulling men, I've no doubts about it, but it ain't Chad's that they were pulling when in their early 20's.

Thats the wall for them.

And if a land whale, pimple faced 18 year old virgin with bad teeth goes to Chad, she will be rejected and dismissed.

That's the wall for her or those like her.

Did I miss something out?

 

[biggoal]

Kellyanne Conway is a guilty pleasure and I displeased to admit that even to close friends lol. I don't understand the attraction, she gives off that nasty milf vibe, secret sex addict vibe. Maybe it's her sassy mouth

Yep. I mean overall she is an attractive woman for her age even though her age shows though that she looks 51 shes still pretty. Her husband isn't attractive as well. All these unattractive guys getting hot girls. It just really sucks lol.

 

[Epic Days]

Hahaha

Meeting men who will grovel for the scraps are just right. Of course a woman can get laid. Duh. Is he going to marry her up or LTR her?
Only if he is a noodle.
These women suffer lots of pain and loss for their decisions. It’s quite the travesty.

 

[GFella]

 

[Atom Smasher]

Mr. @GFella , you're lighting up my radar. Might be a good idea to re-read the forum rules.

 

[sazc]

Kelly Anne Connway?!?!? Seriously?
Sure looks like she was rode hard and put away wet 100 times over. Her face is waves of buckled leather. She's hideous! Her husband has let himself go as well, tho he's aged better than her, which isn't saying much for him

I'm shocked that anyone would think KAC is attractive, at all.....