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Cope myth: "Women hit the wall & men only get better with age"

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What is the wall for men? And why are you using social media as a gauge? Look at the top 10 followed people on Instagram, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most-followed_Instagram_accounts

4 men and 5 women. Doesn't seem as crazy as you make it out to be. Not to mention more women use social media than men. I've got better shiit to do than post pictures of my breakfast.
Yea, it's gay how girls post gym selfies, what they bought at Starbucks, bathroom selfies at work 10 times a day on facebook. It gets annoying. I don't use facebook much so I don't have a crap load of people on it but coworkers, cousins and such who are women are constantly posting this crap.
 

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IIRC when women "hit the wall" they are damaged goods, having aggressively ridden the c0ck carousel for so long, their looks start to diminish, and they are finally ready to settle down, understanding that their fertility is rapidly declining, and will, finally, readily accept something less than chad to settle down with

(Which isn't quite how women experience it)
What I find knee slapping hilarious is all these same dudes talking this cawk carousel foolery never offer up their own female family members as proof. Granny, auntie, sis, mom, female cousins etc. And every male in their families as cucked providers.

Its everyone else but the women in their families of course.

Are there sloots etc out there? Sure. But nowhere near these porn addicted addled brained nitwits claim. Just like this "women wall, men skies the limit" bs
 

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Women hit the wall out of nowhere and get broken while men run out of oil and gradually the engine get more and more rusty.

When I read certain users here claming that their 40s are better than their 20s I dont know if they are coping just like post wall women or they were such out of shape betas in their 20s despite great potentional.

LMS holds ground in my opinion except that L alone is worth both M and S togheter, in terms of sexual market value I would rather get 2 points in my look rather than 3 points in any of those other two.

Being famous doesnt make a girl physically attracted to her, it just stimulate her ego to be with you while money allow her a better life style but wont make her crave your d1ck up her ass.

After all what we want is a girl that is physically attracted to us cause there is more satisfaction and less hassle and sh1t tests.
 
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A lot of what the site claims about older women doesn’t seem to exist beyond this site as lots of older women don’t have problems meeting men. Maybe those men aren’t 20yr olds but this doesn’t seem to bother older women that much.

They don’t crawl under a rock with their 17 cats and die, once they hit 40 lol. Well one woman I know kind of did that, but she has a very bad attitude and I think men avoid her mostly because she is negative and doesn’t make an effort to look decent.

But focal core is right that if a man wants to have a have a family, younger fertile women are obviously more ideal for that.

But sexual appeal can exist for both older women and older men IF they take care of their bodies, appearances and lead healthy styles so they don’t age prematurely.

I find that people who don’t take care of themselves tend to look the worst as they age. Being fat, bad diet, smoking, excessive alcohol use or other drug use etc.

Love seeing older fit men and women because it’s inspiring and refreshing, but it is delusional for anyone to think that they will be just as sexually attractive as a fit 55 as they were as a fit 25. But that doesn’t mean they are not attractive at all.

Money and resources are attractive provider qualities, but that kind of attraction is not the same as sexual attraction.

Nothing trumps sexual attraction in terms of how willing she will be to be in your frame and how happy she will be to stay in it.

So saying men are more attractive when they get older and establish wealth, that’s not sexual attraction. That’s women attracted to what he can do for her, which, according to many guys here, is what you all are trying to avoid - being in a provider role.
 

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A lot of what the site claims about older women doesn’t seem to exist beyond this site as lots of older women don’t have problems meeting men. Maybe those men aren’t 20yr olds but this doesn’t seem to bother older women that much.

They don’t crawl under a rock with their 17 cats and die, once they hit 40 lol. Well one woman I know kind of did that, but she has a very bad attitude and I think men avoid her mostly because she is negative and doesn’t make an effort to look decent.

But focal core is right that if a man wants to have a have a family, younger fertile women are obviously more ideal for that.

But sexual appeal can exist for both older women and older men IF they take care of their bodies, appearances and lead healthy styles so they don’t age prematurely.

I find that people who don’t take care of themselves tend to look the worst as they age. Being fat, bad diet, smoking, excessive alcohol use or other drug use etc.

Love seeing older fit men and women because it’s inspiring and refreshing, but it is delusional for anyone to think that they will be just as sexually attractive as a fit 55 as they were as a fit 25. But that doesn’t mean they are not attractive at all.

Money and resources are attractive provider qualities, but that kind of attraction is not the same as sexual attraction.

Nothing trumps sexual attraction in terms of how willing she will be to be in your frame and how happy she will be to stay in it.

So saying men are more attractive when they get older and establish wealth, that’s not sexual attraction. That’s women attracted to what he can do for her, which, according to many guys here, is what you all are trying to avoid - being in a provider role.
There are many women in their 40s, especially early 40s I've seen that are pretty hot I'd date. MILFs. One I'm texting on OLD is 44.
 

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There are many women in their 40s, especially early 40s I've seen that are pretty hot I'd date. MILFs. One I'm texting on OLD is 44.
They are damaged and are unfortunately only good for practice. Stop walking down the blvd. of broken ladies dreams...
 

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I think @GFella and @Mauser96 are both right.

The idea that womens' lifes in particular will all of a sudden turn to sh!t and they'll regard themselves as beggars instead of princesses, is a coping strategy. And it's a potentially selfdestructive coping strategy at that because it may make some guys believe they don't have to make an effort to keep their hair, skin or fitness.

On the other hand Mauser is right that although the will still get way more attention than a man does, they might find it harder to get the men they desire to have sex with and if not that then to get that man to invest in them. This will be made significantly easier for the woman if she can still be attractive for her age, just like for men. But more likely for women than men, she could have gotten used to dating above her looks match in her youth. If it's harder for her to date up now, but she doesn't feel desire for men at her own looks level or even feels entitled to men above her looks match, then it'll be harder for her.
 
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Explain sex in the city, explain bridget jones diary

Explain old words in the English language like "spinster"

Where are the movies and books about men dealing with age?

A woman getting older is a well documented and historical nightmare

Ok some women age great, and some men age poorly

But the issue of age is with way more important to women

And for good reason
 
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There are many women in their 40s, especially early 40s I've seen that are pretty hot I'd date. MILFs. One I'm texting on OLD is 44.
There ya go. I mean a woman 20yrs younger than her, all things equal will be hotter and I think most women know that men are sexually drawn to hot younger woman, but that doesn’t mean they are never drawn to older woman who are hot as well.

Whatever passes the boner test lol.
 

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There ya go. I mean a woman 20yrs younger than her, all things equal will be hotter and I think most women know that men are sexually drawn to hot younger woman, but that doesn’t mean they are never drawn to older woman who are hot as well.

Whatever passes the boner test lol.
Like I said in other post usually I get a lot more replies from women under 30 and struggle with women in my age range or older until recently for some odd reason. I'd still prefer a hot 22 year old.
 
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I was invited to a birthday party once, when I was about 45 maybe. Birthday Girl was around 30.

While there, about 30 min after my arrival the Birthday girl's Dad showed up. Smaller Filipino man, I'd say about 55?.

Three of the 30 -32 year old women there commented to the Birthday Girl about how hot her Dad was.

One time, when I was about 47, I met a friend of my daughter's, she was probably about 20 at the time. My daughter showed me a text this girl sent her that said "OMG, your Dad is sooooo hot"

So, I believe my experience.


My experience tells me Men age like wine, women age like milk.
No one is saying that women don’t find older men attractive though. OP is saying that older women don’t all disappear off the dating radar past a certain age, like they all fall off a steep cliff or something lol.

Nothing in life outside of this forum suggests that, actually. Some women hit the wall faster than others, same with men.
 
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Like I said in other post usually I get a lot more replies from women under 30 and struggle with women in my age range or older until recently for some odd reason. I'd still prefer a hot 22 year old.
Yeah, your preference is totally normal, 99.9 percent of single men of any age would not pass up an opportunity to date a hot 22 yr old. Most women, even if they don’t like it, know that lol.

Tale as old as time hahaha.
 
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Explain sex in the city, explain bridget jones diary

Explain old words in the English language like "spinster"

Where are the movies and books about men dealing with age?

A woman getting older is a well documented and historical nightmare

Ok some women age great, and some men age poorly

But the issue of age is with way more important to women

And for good reason
You’re right, the issue of age is more important to women, which is why it’s mostly women who get cosmetic work to look young (celebrities excluded).

Looking youthful is attractive, and for most of our existence a female’s appearance was her only playing card for resources. I remember a line in Pride and Prejudice where the mother, after finding out her eldest daughter got engaged to a rich young man, said to her husband something along the lines of, “I knew she wasn’t this beautiful for nothing.”

So it’s engrained in women. We know it’s important lol, we don’t need this site to point out the obvious.

But women do get older, and life goes on so you do the best you can with what you have and women who get hung up on not looking 20 at 45 are only going to make themselves miserable.
 

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I think Kellyanne Conway and Melania Trump are hot.
 

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Everyone hits a wall sooner or later. Statistical research, biology, and cultural phenomena pretty soundly demonstrate, however, that age and time detract from a man's SMV less than it does from a woman's.

I think it's clear the OP is targeting his polemic at a small minority of women who manage to maintain sex appeal into middle age. These are usually women who were very attractive in their 20's and 30's. Attractive women are the primary antagonists of red pill MGTOW men's rights butthurt.

It disregards that the overwhelming majority of women are not HB7+'s that have ability to ride the "c0ck carousal" until middle age before settling down with a beta provider, or be openly and unashamedly hypergamous etc. Like men, they too begin gaining weight, aging, sagging, wrinkling, and stop caring as much as they did about their appearance.
 
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Yeah, your preference is totally normal, 99.9 percent of single men of any age would not pass up an opportunity to date a hot 22 yr old. Most women, even if they don’t like it, know that lol.

Tale as old as time hahaha.
Not every man. If a chick is a dipshiit no matter if younger and hot Id take an older normal woman any day of the week.

Most of these chicks you have zero in common with as an older man unless you're the peter pan lost boy type of dude who will take anything cuz "hawt".
 

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Not every man. If a chick is a dipshiit no matter if younger and hot Id take an older normal woman any day of the week.

Most of these chicks you have zero in common with as an older man unless you're the peter pan lost boy type of dude who will take anything cuz "hawt".
I think we're talking about all else being equal, although I guess you could argue a woman may develop a more pleasant personality as she ages, but then you also have guys here saying women just grow more and more entitled and jaded as they age. I'm not taking a stand either way as I don't have the experience to compare.
 
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Does not include you.. Youre sezy as hell..
I'm only 18, just turned :)

A lot of what the site claims about older women doesn’t seem to exist beyond this site as lots of older women don’t have problems meeting men. Maybe those men aren’t 20yr olds but this doesn’t seem to bother older women that much.

They don’t crawl under a rock with their 17 cats and die, once they hit 40 lol. Well one woman I know kind of did that, but she has a very bad attitude and I think men avoid her mostly because she is negative and doesn’t make an effort to look decent.

But focal core is right that if a man wants to have a have a family, younger fertile women are obviously more ideal for that.

But sexual appeal can exist for both older women and older men IF they take care of their bodies, appearances and lead healthy styles so they don’t age prematurely.

I find that people who don’t take care of themselves tend to look the worst as they age. Being fat, bad diet, smoking, excessive alcohol use or other drug use etc.

Love seeing older fit men and women because it’s inspiring and refreshing, but it is delusional for anyone to think that they will be just as sexually attractive as a fit 55 as they were as a fit 25. But that doesn’t mean they are not attractive at all.

Money and resources are attractive provider qualities, but that kind of attraction is not the same as sexual attraction.

Nothing trumps sexual attraction in terms of how willing she will be to be in your frame and how happy she will be to stay in it.

So saying men are more attractive when they get older and establish wealth, that’s not sexual attraction. That’s women attracted to what he can do for her, which, according to many guys here, is what you all are trying to avoid - being in a provider role.
No no no, the "wall" is 27, not 40
Lmfao
 
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