"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cope myth: "Women hit the wall & men only get better with age"

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Let's take a good look at this major coping myth of "women hitting the wall & men only get better with age"

First let's not pretend that women not only have tons of orbiters, suitors, chads, providers, and mstow / incels talking about them constantly, still banging them, orbiting them, proposing marriage and providing for them, offering cosmetic surgery, gym memberships but the amount of ATTENTION they still get on OLD and any social media compared to most men.

Everyone "hits the wall" at some point in their lives. Most men aren't getting near even the attention, dates, offers for providing and on and on as women who supposedly "hit the wall".

Even IF you improve yourself to the hilt doesn't mean it automatically or even at all affects womens smv to massive amounts of other types of men.

What? She hits a certain age and just falls apart? Doesn't go to the gym? Dresses frumpy? Gets banned from social media and cast out like a woman sent on her way? Gtfo.

These women are always shopping for clothes, going to the gym, getting support for womens rights, using makeup, getting cosmetic surgery, still dating lawyers, doctors, CEOs getting married and getting chased or provided for somehow by men and most times working and providing for themselves and their families.

There's milf porn, pregnant, mature, etc for dudes who love that.

There's younger dudes who love older women.

I could go on.

My opinion is the majority of MEN hit that wall waaaay before most women do and it can easily be proven by how much more attention even older women get on social media etc that most dudes of any age.

Like i said you can improve yourself to be the best man that ever lived on the planet. Its not going to flip a switch and have women just "fall apart" at X age and be banished to nowhere. Many other men will still be after them for many reasons.

"Women hit the wall & men only get better with age" is a major cope fail revenge fantasy. Nothing more.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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P****sy is extremely valuable with nothing attached to it


**** is only valuable with a million things attached to it. The world has been like this forever. Complaining about it won't change it - you just gotta do the best with the factors you can control
 

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Let's take a good look at this major coping myth of "women hitting the wall & men only get better with age"

First let's not pretend that women not only have tons of orbiters, suitors, chads, providers, and mstow / incels talking about them constantly, still banging them, orbiting them, proposing marriage and providing for them, offering cosmetic surgery, gym memberships but the amount of ATTENTION they still get on OLD and any social media compared to most men.

Everyone "hits the wall" at some point in their lives. Most men aren't getting near even the attention, dates, offers for providing and on and on as women who supposedly "hit the wall".

Even IF you improve yourself to the hilt doesn't mean it automatically or even at all affects womens smv to massive amounts of other types of men.

What? She hits a certain age and just falls apart? Doesn't go to the gym? Dresses frumpy? Gets banned from social media and cast out like a woman sent on her way? Gtfo.

These women are always shopping for clothes, going to the gym, getting support for womens rights, using makeup, getting cosmetic surgery, still dating lawyers, doctors, CEOs getting married and getting chased or provided for somehow by men and most times working and providing for themselves and their families.

There's milf porn, pregnant, mature, etc for dudes who love that.

There's younger dudes who love older women.

I could go on.

My opinion is the majority of MEN hit that wall waaaay before most women do and it can easily be proven by how much more attention even older women get on social media etc that most dudes of any age.

Like i said you can improve yourself to be the best man that ever lived on the planet. Its not going to flip a switch and have women just "fall apart" at X age and be banished to nowhere. Many other men will still be after them for many reasons.

"Women hit the wall & men only get better with age" is a major cope fail revenge fantasy. Nothing more.
Who hurt you dude?
 

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My opinion is the majority of MEN hit that wall waaaay before most women do and it can easily be proven by how much more attention even older women get on social media etc that most dudes of any age.
What is the wall for men? And why are you using social media as a gauge? Look at the top 10 followed people on Instagram, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most-followed_Instagram_accounts

4 men and 5 women. Doesn't seem as crazy as you make it out to be. Not to mention more women use social media than men. I've got better shiit to do than post pictures of my breakfast.
 

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Why else would "Women hit the wall & men only get better with age" trope be pushed so vehemently other than being some angry, dejected men's revenge fantasy cope?

If you were a man who can get much younger women constantly there would be no need to worry about women you claim to not want "hitting the wall" as you age like Benjamin Buttons.


I'm not buying the myth. If any of you actually believed that "Women hit the wall & men only get better with age" there would be no need to discuss, or get angry about any of the things women continuously get throughout their lives even to the point of whining about how women have it easier than men which is evidenced daily on the net and the reason MEN are looking to learn "game" etc to try to one up them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hitting the wall means mens will not look at them as a intermidiate wife material anymore.. The rest you said was correct.
 

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Hitting the wall means mens will not look at them as a intermidiate wife material anymore.. The rest you said was correct.
So now women after a certain age are banned from being married or will never end up with anyone better just because some dudes on the internet decide when they hit X age they don't want those same women?

Lol
 

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IIRC when women "hit the wall" they are damaged goods, having aggressively ridden the c0ck carousel for so long, their looks start to diminish, and they are finally ready to settle down, understanding that their fertility is rapidly declining, and will, finally, readily accept something less than chad to settle down with

(Which isn't quite how women experience it)
 

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So now women after a certain age are banned from being married or will never end up with anyone better just because some dudes on the internet decide when they hit X age they don't want those same women?

Lol
No sane men would lock her for weds and future a kids with that age.. Get real.. Not to include dating phase more or less 2 years down the road, planning a marriage, create bonding, emotional connection, intimacy, financial stability doesn't come in one night.. Sure you can marry them, if you would a mature like you say?
 

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IIRC when women "hit the wall" they are damaged goods, having aggressively ridden the c0ck carousel for so long, their looks start to diminish, and they are finally ready to settle down, understanding that their fertility is rapidly declining, and will, finally, readily accept something less than chad to settle down with

(Which isn't quite how women experience it)
Does not include you.. Youre sezy as hell..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No sane men would lock her for weds and future a kids with that age.. Get real.. Not to include dating phase more or less 2 years down the road, planning a marriage, create bonding, emotional connection, intimacy, financial stability doesn't come in one night.. Sure you can marry them, if you would a mature like you say?

my best friend is 30, good looking, in great shape, smart and from great family. He married a 40 year old with 3 kids
 

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No sane men would lock her for weds and future a kids with that age.. Get real.. Not to include dating phase more or less 2 years down the road, planning a marriage, create bonding, emotional connection, intimacy, financial stability doesn't come in one night.. Sure you can marry them, if you would a mature like you say?
Get out of your house for once. These same women are either married, getting married, dating, having kids and going through their lives with other men who don't give a damn if you or I like it or not.

You dudes with these laughable revenge fantasies you can't get over is hilarious.

Karma isnt real bro. If it were only bad things would happen to bad people and good to good people.

Once you move past the foolishness you'll actually be doing some improvement.

Still won't make this "wall" myth any more valid.
 

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my best friend is 30, good looking, in great shape, smart and from great family. He married a 40 year old with 3 kids
Imho 30 is still in the right zone provided you're married at that age.. Not just start dating.. And would lose if the relationship failed. The concept base on one rule, 'dont marry someone that has more problem than you' otherwise I don't see any problem men at 45 married a 35yrs girl.. But at that age there will be a problem about to get both agreed on having kids anymore.
 

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Get out of your house for once. These same women are either married, getting married, dating, having kids and going through their lives with other men who don't give a damn if you or I like it or not.

You dudes with these laughable revenge fantasies you can't get over is hilarious.

Karma isnt real bro. If it were only bad things would happen to bad people and good to good people.

Once you move past the foolishness you'll actually be doing some improvement.

Still won't make this "wall" myth any more valid.
You may validate yourself as you may, I belief we set our life the way we want to. Even being married at middle ages..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Imho 30 is still in the right zone provided you're married at that age.. Not just start dating.. And would lose if the relationship failed. The concept base on one rule, 'dont marry someone that has more problem than you' otherwise I don't see any problem men at 45 married a 35yrs girl.. But at that age there will be a problem about to get both agreed on having kids anymore.
You misread... The dude is 30, the lady is 40 w. 3 kids. This dude is either going to be miserable or fvcked up the ass in divorce court.
 

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Let's take a good look at this major coping myth of "women hitting the wall & men only get better with age"

First let's not pretend that women not only have tons of orbiters, suitors, chads, providers, and mstow / incels talking about them constantly, still banging them, orbiting them, proposing marriage and providing for them, offering cosmetic surgery, gym memberships but the amount of ATTENTION they still get on OLD and any social media compared to most men.

Everyone "hits the wall" at some point in their lives. Most men aren't getting near even the attention, dates, offers for providing and on and on as women who supposedly "hit the wall".

Even IF you improve yourself to the hilt doesn't mean it automatically or even at all affects womens smv to massive amounts of other types of men.

What? She hits a certain age and just falls apart? Doesn't go to the gym? Dresses frumpy? Gets banned from social media and cast out like a woman sent on her way? Gtfo.

These women are always shopping for clothes, going to the gym, getting support for womens rights, using makeup, getting cosmetic surgery, still dating lawyers, doctors, CEOs getting married and getting chased or provided for somehow by men and most times working and providing for themselves and their families.

There's milf porn, pregnant, mature, etc for dudes who love that.

There's younger dudes who love older women.

I could go on.

My opinion is the majority of MEN hit that wall waaaay before most women do and it can easily be proven by how much more attention even older women get on social media etc that most dudes of any age.

Like i said you can improve yourself to be the best man that ever lived on the planet. Its not going to flip a switch and have women just "fall apart" at X age and be banished to nowhere. Many other men will still be after them for many reasons.

"Women hit the wall & men only get better with age" is a major cope fail revenge fantasy. Nothing more.
I agree 110%. The thing most women do get is more and more entitled. They always look for sonething outside themselves to blame. Thus when its not coming to them like it was when they were 25 yrs old they have a harder time than the man who manned up takes responsibility and keeps himself fit and financially sound.
 

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You misread... The dude is 30, the lady is 40 w. 3 kids. This dude is either going to be miserable or fvcked up the ass in divorce court.
That sure will end well.. Yeah just taking my sleeping pills.. Got to work tomorrow eyes getting dizzy couldn't slept, resting too much after hitting the gym hard.
 

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Simpanzie. A/K/A Capt. Save a ho.


Get a new best friend. He's a loser.

there is something seriously wrong with his brain. He always did well with women - he routinely slept with 21-28 year old girls when he was single


I can't figure out why on god's green earth he married a 40 year old but they seem to be very happy together
 

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That sure will end well.. Yeah just taking my sleeping pills.. Got to work tomorrow eyes getting dizzy couldn't slept, resting too much after hitting the gym hard.
It happens.

there is something seriously wrong with his brain. He always did well with women - he routinely slept with 21-28 year old girls when he was single


I can't figure out why on god's green earth he married a 40 year old but they seem to be very happy together
Dude, this will not end well for him. Tell him to keep some money in cash, gold or silver on the side in a safe deposit box that she doesn't know able. Just for safe keeping. If he even mentions to you that he's going to legally adopt them, you hit him over the head with a baseball bat. Suggest to him to come here or read the horror stories over at http://www.DadsDivorce.com. So stupid...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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