"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's-Me

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I discovered something amazing today! It goes a little something like this...

My friend is sitting in back of a HB8. The HB8 wasn't sitting straight and her chair was facing the right side. He spontaneously moved her chair straight and said loudly "Site up straight". He repeated this like 4 times with an amusing tone and she couldn't stop laughing. It was pure gold!

I have heard from other people bossing girls around in a playful way works great! I'm going to field test this when I get the chance. I'm going to try saying like "Uncross your arms!", "Take your hands out of your pockets"...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Groovy

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The uncross your arms is nice, I use that!

Like the GIRL comes to talk to me, and she does sort of a "self-hug", does that mean she is not receptive, or that she is insecure? :cuss: DAMN GIRLS! I dunno

So I just uncross her arms while keeping up the conversation, and maybe i'll mention it, but I don't have to.

Later on I was talking about something negative (In a funny way :D) and the girl jokingly said WOW that's terrible! And I said yeah makes you wanna .... I wasn't done talking and she said : Cross your arms eh?

I laughed. :p Socializing is fun.
 

SinJester

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lol I've used uncross your arms at a part before. Doesn't always work because given their body language they aren't always that aproachable to start with!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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