"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's-Me

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I discovered something amazing today! It goes a little something like this...

My friend is sitting in back of a HB8. The HB8 wasn't sitting straight and her chair was facing the right side. He spontaneously moved her chair straight and said loudly "Site up straight". He repeated this like 4 times with an amusing tone and she couldn't stop laughing. It was pure gold!

I have heard from other people bossing girls around in a playful way works great! I'm going to field test this when I get the chance. I'm going to try saying like "Uncross your arms!", "Take your hands out of your pockets"...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Groovy

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The uncross your arms is nice, I use that!

Like the GIRL comes to talk to me, and she does sort of a "self-hug", does that mean she is not receptive, or that she is insecure? :cuss: DAMN GIRLS! I dunno

So I just uncross her arms while keeping up the conversation, and maybe i'll mention it, but I don't have to.

Later on I was talking about something negative (In a funny way :D) and the girl jokingly said WOW that's terrible! And I said yeah makes you wanna .... I wasn't done talking and she said : Cross your arms eh?

I laughed. :p Socializing is fun.
 

SinJester

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lol I've used uncross your arms at a part before. Doesn't always work because given their body language they aren't always that aproachable to start with!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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