Cool to just stop contact?

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

I don't mean for playing games. I'm just sick of flaky girls, past oneitus's, etc.

It feels sooooo uncool to just not get back to someone, but I guess thats the inner-AFC talking.

A past oneitus from a few months ago called last Friday, then Sunday. I picked up neither calls. Not for a no-contact reason, I just honestly did not want to talk to her. I'm sick of dealing with that b*ll****. I feel like I should get back to these people, or even initiate with others who haven't contacted me . . you know, to be a 'stand-up guy' or whatever. Afterall, if it was a good friend, I would have for sure gotten back to them.

I just have the urge to start fresh, but I don't want to burn bridges or the possibility of getting with these people down the line.

There's even a girl I've hung out with a couple times, with nothing negative about it, who I have no desire to contact.

Can this damage future possibilities with these people?

 

[Tiguere]

No in fact it will improve opportunities. You become scarce your value goes up. But only if you if you keep expanding your social network.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

I use to feel like you too but the fact is that take a lesson from the women out there..they do this to guys ALL THE TIME. Who gives a f*ck about not contacting them if you don't feel like talking or texting then don't do it until you do!