"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cool jobs for young guys?

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So, I'm a lifeguard, and I'm looking for a second job for over the summer. I don't want a fast food or food-related job, can anyone give me and recommendations on what they or some of their friends did?

I need the extra money to buy a sports car by the end of the summer in time for college.

I was thinking of maybe finding a job at the airport, or being a waiter at a cool restaurant, mostly because of the tips.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My first jobs were landscaping and construction. It was hard work but, I loved it. Being outside during summer time getting tan. Bulking up and getting strong from all the heavy lifting and work. Pay was good too. I also, did wildland firefighting one summer. That was fun but, that job will k!ck your a$$.

I just noticed your only lookin for a second job. Well, I heard you can work for star bucks 20 hours a week and get great benefits.
 
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Michele said:
get a job at abercrombie.

it's a "cool" job if you make it. pay sucks though... but there's hot girls you get to know easily.

i've worked there for some time... you better be pretty good looking... or just get along well with people well to get the hours you want.

the downside is... like i said, the pay sucks... and you'll be paying more attention to buying clothes with the discount, than saving for a car.

but to be honest, it's a cool job... but it's not a smart job to actually take.

what part of FL... on the coast?

there's definitely some pretty badass non-chain restraunts i've been to.
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The nearest A&F (or similar store) is about 20 minutes away.

I'll just work as a waiter at a restaurant, it'll help sharpen my social skills, I'll be able to get free food, meet girls, and get tips. And with my day job (lifeguarding), what more could I ask for? I'll never be bored, hungry, or out of money! Just pressed for time, but that only adds value to me :)

I'm saving for an Audi TT, BTW. It's going to cost about $12,000, but I know where I can get them cheaper.

That also won't be my only source of income; I'll be loaning friends money for interest, and selling stuff on eBay.

Should be an interesting first year in college :)
 
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Vice said:
I was thinking of maybe finding a job at the airport, or being a waiter at a cool restaurant, mostly because of the tips.
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I thought you didnt want a food related job. Being a server isnt too bad, if you work at a place with a decent amount of business. There are also a lot of girls who skank it out to the cool guys at their restaurant...its kinda funny actually.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You can do retail like an electronics store, and that is always fun for most. Some pay commission and some are hourly, but you get to play with electronics, interact with people, and NOT smell like gross food. Not to mention your discount in case you want to put a DVD system and bad ass stereo in the new car :up:
 
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Omen said:
You can do retail like an electronics store, and that is always fun for most. Some pay commission and some are hourly, but you get to play with electronics, interact with people, and NOT smell like gross food. Not to mention your discount in case you want to put a DVD system and bad ass stereo in the new car :up:
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That's a ****ing awesome idea!

40 year old virgin style, but despite that it sounds like a possible plan. First on my priorities :D

don't have too many electronics stores around here, but i'll find a fun one to chill at :]
 
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