"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cool jobs for young guys?

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So, I'm a lifeguard, and I'm looking for a second job for over the summer. I don't want a fast food or food-related job, can anyone give me and recommendations on what they or some of their friends did?

I need the extra money to buy a sports car by the end of the summer in time for college.

I was thinking of maybe finding a job at the airport, or being a waiter at a cool restaurant, mostly because of the tips.
 
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My first jobs were landscaping and construction. It was hard work but, I loved it. Being outside during summer time getting tan. Bulking up and getting strong from all the heavy lifting and work. Pay was good too. I also, did wildland firefighting one summer. That was fun but, that job will k!ck your a$$.

I just noticed your only lookin for a second job. Well, I heard you can work for star bucks 20 hours a week and get great benefits.
 
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Michele said:
get a job at abercrombie.

it's a "cool" job if you make it. pay sucks though... but there's hot girls you get to know easily.

i've worked there for some time... you better be pretty good looking... or just get along well with people well to get the hours you want.

the downside is... like i said, the pay sucks... and you'll be paying more attention to buying clothes with the discount, than saving for a car.

but to be honest, it's a cool job... but it's not a smart job to actually take.

what part of FL... on the coast?

there's definitely some pretty badass non-chain restraunts i've been to.
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The nearest A&F (or similar store) is about 20 minutes away.

I'll just work as a waiter at a restaurant, it'll help sharpen my social skills, I'll be able to get free food, meet girls, and get tips. And with my day job (lifeguarding), what more could I ask for? I'll never be bored, hungry, or out of money! Just pressed for time, but that only adds value to me :)

I'm saving for an Audi TT, BTW. It's going to cost about $12,000, but I know where I can get them cheaper.

That also won't be my only source of income; I'll be loaning friends money for interest, and selling stuff on eBay.

Should be an interesting first year in college :)
 
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Vice said:
I was thinking of maybe finding a job at the airport, or being a waiter at a cool restaurant, mostly because of the tips.
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I thought you didnt want a food related job. Being a server isnt too bad, if you work at a place with a decent amount of business. There are also a lot of girls who skank it out to the cool guys at their restaurant...its kinda funny actually.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You can do retail like an electronics store, and that is always fun for most. Some pay commission and some are hourly, but you get to play with electronics, interact with people, and NOT smell like gross food. Not to mention your discount in case you want to put a DVD system and bad ass stereo in the new car :up:
 
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Omen said:
You can do retail like an electronics store, and that is always fun for most. Some pay commission and some are hourly, but you get to play with electronics, interact with people, and NOT smell like gross food. Not to mention your discount in case you want to put a DVD system and bad ass stereo in the new car :up:
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That's a ****ing awesome idea!

40 year old virgin style, but despite that it sounds like a possible plan. First on my priorities :D

don't have too many electronics stores around here, but i'll find a fun one to chill at :]
 
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