"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Oni

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Okay, so i know the basics to conversations with girls whn you go on dates. but in more cases, those are girls that you dont know too well yet.

Well, what if the girl is someone whom you've known for years and been friends with as well. Then what?

Her friend told me that the only thing she sees in a guy is that the guy is fun to be with. what exactly does that mean?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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piltad

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are you asking how to get out of the friend zone or what man? i can guarantee that you can find whtever your looking for in the DJ bible

But if you no the girl well what you talk about?? man if your spending $ on a 2nd date you all have better have something in common therefore thats what you talk about that or whats going on w/ or her past couple days or go into someting debatable why men make more # then woman and debate it w/ them crap do something i mean don't just sit there I really don't understand why you are asking this or i just don't know what the h3ll you are asking
 

Juanito

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Oni said:
Okay, so i know the basics to conversations with girls whn you go on dates. but in more cases, those are girls that you dont know too well yet.

Well, what if the girl is someone whom you've known for years and been friends with as well. Then what?

Her friend told me that the only thing she sees in a guy is that the guy is fun to be with. what exactly does that mean?
oni oni oni..

dont try to understand women...you wont

and stop worrying about these random things

you obviously like this person - you seem to think about her a lot

everyone wants to be with a fun person...so i suggest have fun with her!!! and be a man!
 

Damian

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Never believe a woman when she says explicitly what she wants. The universal truth is that women DON'T know what they want. Read up on the bible, go look at some reading out there that's already all lined up for you. Real World Seduction and the Venusian Arts Handbook are all wonderful sources. If anything, she is just giving you a little hint to how to get closer to her, but not into a relationship. If you want to have a relationship with this woman, distance yourself from her for a week, then come back with all the DJ tactics you know. Work it.

-Damian
 
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