"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oni

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Okay, so i know the basics to conversations with girls whn you go on dates. but in more cases, those are girls that you dont know too well yet.

Well, what if the girl is someone whom you've known for years and been friends with as well. Then what?

Her friend told me that the only thing she sees in a guy is that the guy is fun to be with. what exactly does that mean?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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piltad

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are you asking how to get out of the friend zone or what man? i can guarantee that you can find whtever your looking for in the DJ bible

But if you no the girl well what you talk about?? man if your spending $ on a 2nd date you all have better have something in common therefore thats what you talk about that or whats going on w/ or her past couple days or go into someting debatable why men make more # then woman and debate it w/ them crap do something i mean don't just sit there I really don't understand why you are asking this or i just don't know what the h3ll you are asking
 

Juanito

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Oni said:
Okay, so i know the basics to conversations with girls whn you go on dates. but in more cases, those are girls that you dont know too well yet.

Well, what if the girl is someone whom you've known for years and been friends with as well. Then what?

Her friend told me that the only thing she sees in a guy is that the guy is fun to be with. what exactly does that mean?
oni oni oni..

dont try to understand women...you wont

and stop worrying about these random things

you obviously like this person - you seem to think about her a lot

everyone wants to be with a fun person...so i suggest have fun with her!!! and be a man!
 

Damian

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Never believe a woman when she says explicitly what she wants. The universal truth is that women DON'T know what they want. Read up on the bible, go look at some reading out there that's already all lined up for you. Real World Seduction and the Venusian Arts Handbook are all wonderful sources. If anything, she is just giving you a little hint to how to get closer to her, but not into a relationship. If you want to have a relationship with this woman, distance yourself from her for a week, then come back with all the DJ tactics you know. Work it.

-Damian
 
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