“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sandman6991

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Well guys...I'm gaming this chick I met on facebook a while ago...last time we talked, I did really well...I asked her to hang out sometime next week (which was last week) and she said she had work all week...but maybe if she got off early. I then number closed her...but didn't call or text all week. This is the next time talking to her, an AIM convo tonight...I need your opinions please, on how I'm doing, how interested she is, what I can do better...and if you guys think I can call tomorrow and successfully get a date for next week

Me: hey!
Her: hey
Me: guess what! i was at the gym today...and i saw a girl that looked JUST like you
Me: do you have a twin or something i should know about?
Her: haha no...not that I know of
Her: what gym do you go to?
Me: i go to apex fitness center...it's on sevierville road
Her: yea...I didn't work out today and I go to the rush anyway...so it definately wasn't me lol
Her: have you even seen me in person? lol
Me: nope..i havent...i think my idea of you is close though
Me: haha
Her: I can't remember her name but there is a girl at your school that my friend thinks we look a like
Her: maybe it was her lol
Me: haha..it could have been! what a relief though, you know...i can handle one of you...but if there was TWO? i was about to call nasa to your house and send you to the moon ;)
Her: haha...i don't think I could even handle two of me..
Me: oh...by the way
Me: i passed a fuddruckers today...not the same thing, i know...but close enough, huh?
Her: so there is a fuddruckers and a fudpuckers?
Me: yup! it's in *my town*...across from best buy
Me: i was hoping they had a rhyme i could teach you
Her: haha..too bad
(Me: yeah...think i can ever make it up to you? haha
Her: hmm...i don't think so...
Her: jk
Me: well shoot...now im not going to be able to sleep this whole week
Me: look at what you've done ;)
Her: i guess i'll just have to live with a guilty conscience
Me: well we cant have that...
Me: you never told me where you work?
Her: sonic....ugh
Her: but its a paycheck
Me: oh really?
Me: i was at sonic last week
Me: i would come visit you...but i dont tip
Me: haha
Her: ppl that work there don't like ppl like you...just to let you know haha
Her: and I was at the beach last week so i wouldn't have been there anyway lol
Me: haha...dont worry...you guys still get your tips
Me: i have my friends do it
Me: hold on...how much of a tip do you guys want
Her: as much as someone is willing to give...
Her: I don't get to take food out that much yet since i'm new so i dont really know
Me: well...so you know...i tip at the drive-thru too
Me: one time i dropped a benjamin on someone just so they'd know i was a high-roller
Her: haha nice...
Her: people sometimes tip me at the drive thru which is nice
Her: i came home with 12 extra dollars today and I didn't take any orders to cars
Her: it was all just ppl at the drive thru
Me: dang! got any job openings there?
Me: that's not bad for standing there all day
Me: haha
Her: I know..so hopefully I'll get some decent extra money when I actually take stuff to cars
Me: when do you get THAT promotion?
Her: um..I don't really know..
Her: they let me when we arent busy..so I think it should be soon
Her: its only my second week working
Me: woah! you're climbing the job latter awful quick...before long you'll own the joint ;)
Her: haha definatly not...some of those ppl have worked there like 7 or 8 years...
Her: count me out for that...
Me: are you serious?
Her: yep...
Me: what are they still doing?
Her: same thing everybody else does
Me: not even special pins or nametags?
Me: talk about getting the shaft!
Her: hahaha
Her: I get my first paycheck on thursday and hopefully it will make it worth it
Me: do you know how much you're gonna be makin yet?
Me: im not too big on surprises like that...
Her: its 515 an hour...which kind of suck...
Her: but I could look how many hours I worked and figure it out...I just havent looked
Me: that's not too bad...it's better than manual labor or something
Her: agreed
Me: i applied over at target
Me: they must not have gotten my application
Me: you know...that stuff gets lost all the time
Her: haha
Me: are you working next week too?
Her: yep
Me: all week?
Her: yep...but i'll have a day or two off
Her: i just dont know which ones yet
Her: but i'm tired..I'll ttyl! goodnight
Me: night!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mizzikiel

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i like how you think we have time to analyze a wall of text to tell you if a girl likes you or not. Gotta learn to do it for yourself man, and besides, as far as im concerned, msn convos mean nothing, you can't see emotion or anything. You can't tell what someone means just from reading it, I forgot the exact numbers, but something like 85% of talking is non-verbal. So without first of all knowing this girl and secondly actually seeing her, I am, as im sure many others are, un-able to properly analyze this

Edit: This isn't meant to sound like me being an as$hole, upon re-reading this I realized I did sound like one. I'm just trying to say that DJs cant always be there to consult with, so you have to be able to identify for yourself.
 

mpimpin

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It's over analyzing like this that prevents any action. Congrats on being able to hold an IM conversation ...:rolleyes:
the only advice you need is stop analyzing and just go for it
 

dre007

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true..all of this was pretty much fluff, u need to try and get some IOIs from her, so step up ur game and see if u get some
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sandman6991

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Sorry guys!

I'm putting too much thought into it...just wanting to make sure I wasn't doing anything blatantly wrong

It's time to make a move...
 
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