"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Convo going sexual when you dont want it toÉ

619joe

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I hate when this happens.

Ill be talking with a girl who not extremly hot but maybe 7 or 7.5 and the conversation takes a turn down to that special street where the birds are chirppin and sun is shining.

Yeah you get what im saying.Lets say earlier I was talking to this girl about how Im a caterer by day and a super hero by night with handcuffs.She eventually asks if i would ``handcuff`` her or what I would do after I handcuffed her.I jusst felt wierd because she isnt that hot but is relativetly hittable.She is down for the pound but ahhhh..

Also when a girl starts the 21 questions game,you know somethins up.They want you to start it but they want you to get down to business.I go first with ``big or small¿``.I didnt know what to expect when I said that but she replied with ``doesnt matter to me how big``.I got back to her saying she went dirty so fast that i was talking about height!Lol it did get intense after but it just felt wierd i dunno how to explain really
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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think about this:
if you find it weird to talk to average looking girls sexually

how exactly are you planning to talk to super babes sexually?
 

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Well, it depends on why you start feeling weird. Like Alex said, if you're nervous about talking sexually around girls in general, that's a problem, and one that you should get more comfortable with.

However, if you're just feeling weird because you're just not that attracted to these specific girls, I see where that's coming from. It seems you are kind of 'hinting' at sexual topics (or at least they think you are). This could just be a habit, but you might want to watch it around girls you aren't attracted to. Apparently, girls think about you sexually even when you don't want them to. Annoying, I'm sure, but not exactly the worst problem to have :D
 

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No no I can easily get into that "sexually talking" frame but id feel 10X more comfortable talking about it with a girl im reaaally wanting to do stuff with ya know.

walking stick ya you got it thats what i mean haha
 

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Say something unsexy. You hear about that 1000 pound guy who ate his dog?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Five To One said:
Say something unsexy. You hear about that 1000 pound guy who ate his dog?
and what are you planning to achieve by talking "unsexy"
if your trying to creep out your average looking hb friends, then go for it :cool:
 

Five To One

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619joe said:
Convo going sexual when you dont want it toÉ

All you need to do is read the title. He doesnt want to talk sexual with this girl so change the subject to something that isnt.

Also he never said this girl was his friend. Remember its high school; my freshmen year i would talk to people on instant messenger that I would barely talk to at school, these people I wouldnt concider my freinds.


619, was this conversation over instant messager by chance? and how good of friends are you with her, if you would concider yourself her friend at all.
 
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