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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Convo going sexual when you dont want it toÉ

619joe

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I hate when this happens.

Ill be talking with a girl who not extremly hot but maybe 7 or 7.5 and the conversation takes a turn down to that special street where the birds are chirppin and sun is shining.

Yeah you get what im saying.Lets say earlier I was talking to this girl about how Im a caterer by day and a super hero by night with handcuffs.She eventually asks if i would ``handcuff`` her or what I would do after I handcuffed her.I jusst felt wierd because she isnt that hot but is relativetly hittable.She is down for the pound but ahhhh..

Also when a girl starts the 21 questions game,you know somethins up.They want you to start it but they want you to get down to business.I go first with ``big or small¿``.I didnt know what to expect when I said that but she replied with ``doesnt matter to me how big``.I got back to her saying she went dirty so fast that i was talking about height!Lol it did get intense after but it just felt wierd i dunno how to explain really
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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think about this:
if you find it weird to talk to average looking girls sexually

how exactly are you planning to talk to super babes sexually?
 

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Well, it depends on why you start feeling weird. Like Alex said, if you're nervous about talking sexually around girls in general, that's a problem, and one that you should get more comfortable with.

However, if you're just feeling weird because you're just not that attracted to these specific girls, I see where that's coming from. It seems you are kind of 'hinting' at sexual topics (or at least they think you are). This could just be a habit, but you might want to watch it around girls you aren't attracted to. Apparently, girls think about you sexually even when you don't want them to. Annoying, I'm sure, but not exactly the worst problem to have :D
 

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No no I can easily get into that "sexually talking" frame but id feel 10X more comfortable talking about it with a girl im reaaally wanting to do stuff with ya know.

walking stick ya you got it thats what i mean haha
 

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Say something unsexy. You hear about that 1000 pound guy who ate his dog?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Five To One said:
Say something unsexy. You hear about that 1000 pound guy who ate his dog?
and what are you planning to achieve by talking "unsexy"
if your trying to creep out your average looking hb friends, then go for it :cool:
 

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619joe said:
Convo going sexual when you dont want it toÉ

All you need to do is read the title. He doesnt want to talk sexual with this girl so change the subject to something that isnt.

Also he never said this girl was his friend. Remember its high school; my freshmen year i would talk to people on instant messenger that I would barely talk to at school, these people I wouldnt concider my freinds.


619, was this conversation over instant messager by chance? and how good of friends are you with her, if you would concider yourself her friend at all.
 
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