I figured it might be interesting to re-tell to you guys a real life example of what not to do. And proving the DJ bible right once again Every negative point the girl brought was exactly as mentioned not do in the DJ Bible and I was trying hard not to grin too much
So I am waiting in a hair salon to get my hair cut and the girl who always cuts my hair is currently working on another client who happends to be a girl. Both of them are in their early 20 as I am as well. So I hear the client girl complain to the hair stylist about a guy she thought was cute and nice, just went out on a date with and then got freaked out and dumped.
So she was working for a short time at Hooters, she did not like all the attention she was getting from guys and all the comments about her body so she quit after a few weeks. But her manager caught her eye as being a nice & cute guy, but due to work policy she could not date him. So the day she quit she gave him her number.
In short she said he was super nice and funny during the first date and it lasted late into the night, and then she went home.
Now here is his screw up:
The guy told her to call him when she got home cause he was worried about her driving home at night. Well according to her she turned off her phone when she got home cause she didn't want it to ring and wake up her parents and she did not call the guy back. So this guy called 4 times that night and left several voice mails saying he was very worried about her. Next evening he called her again and this time she picked up and basicly told him to leave her alone and not call her again cause he freaked her out.
So this guy was doing great before and during the date to her and she was really into him, but then his actions made her interest drop like a rock from the high 90s to ... One wrong move on the part of this guy caused him to scare her off big time to the point where she doesn't want to even consider try going out with him again.
So I am waiting in a hair salon to get my hair cut and the girl who always cuts my hair is currently working on another client who happends to be a girl. Both of them are in their early 20 as I am as well. So I hear the client girl complain to the hair stylist about a guy she thought was cute and nice, just went out on a date with and then got freaked out and dumped.
So she was working for a short time at Hooters, she did not like all the attention she was getting from guys and all the comments about her body so she quit after a few weeks. But her manager caught her eye as being a nice & cute guy, but due to work policy she could not date him. So the day she quit she gave him her number.
In short she said he was super nice and funny during the first date and it lasted late into the night, and then she went home.
Now here is his screw up:
The guy told her to call him when she got home cause he was worried about her driving home at night. Well according to her she turned off her phone when she got home cause she didn't want it to ring and wake up her parents and she did not call the guy back. So this guy called 4 times that night and left several voice mails saying he was very worried about her. Next evening he called her again and this time she picked up and basicly told him to leave her alone and not call her again cause he freaked her out.
So this guy was doing great before and during the date to her and she was really into him, but then his actions made her interest drop like a rock from the high 90s to ... One wrong move on the part of this guy caused him to scare her off big time to the point where she doesn't want to even consider try going out with him again.