"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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conving a girl to become a FB?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Any answer I could give you would just proxy through you and come out shi> anyway.

You'll get it when you have more experience, you'll get everything but it's not the right thing for me to indulge your mindset right now.

Re-read your post and you might see it's fundamentally flawed.
Like asking what kind of petrol should I use to put out a fire.
 
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Changing a girl's mind? There's really no point in doing so.

The good news is, there are a lot of women out there looking for FB's.

The rule is to NEVER get emotional when spending time together. Avoid it.

FYI, most women will EVENTUALLY start developing feelings for you inevitably if your game is real good.
 
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You don't. When a woman decides she wants more than just sex from you. There are two choices. Relationship or breakup.

You do understand that for women sex is the bait to get love/marriage/relationship.

Player Supreme said it and I've found it to be true. Eventually, if you are not going to be in a serious relationship, a woman you are seeing will "blow out". She's not gonna stay an FB forever and ever. A girlfriend is not gonna stay a girlfriend forever, she will eventually want marriage. And as we all know too many times married woman is not gonna stay married for ever anymore, she eventually wants out. Understand that all relationships are temporary, even in the only thing that stops them is death. Once you accept that, and you know what you really want. You understand more and you stress less. Good luck.
 
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Allurre said:
Changing a girl's mind? There's really no point in doing so.

The good news is, there are a lot of women out there looking for FB's.

The rule is to NEVER get emotional when spending time together. Avoid it.

FYI, most women will EVENTUALLY start developing feelings for you inevitably if your game is real good.
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getting emotional is where i ****ed up!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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