"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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conving a girl to become a FB?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Accension

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Any answer I could give you would just proxy through you and come out shi> anyway.

You'll get it when you have more experience, you'll get everything but it's not the right thing for me to indulge your mindset right now.

Re-read your post and you might see it's fundamentally flawed.
Like asking what kind of petrol should I use to put out a fire.
 

Allurre

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Changing a girl's mind? There's really no point in doing so.

The good news is, there are a lot of women out there looking for FB's.

The rule is to NEVER get emotional when spending time together. Avoid it.

FYI, most women will EVENTUALLY start developing feelings for you inevitably if your game is real good.
 

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You don't. When a woman decides she wants more than just sex from you. There are two choices. Relationship or breakup.

You do understand that for women sex is the bait to get love/marriage/relationship.

Player Supreme said it and I've found it to be true. Eventually, if you are not going to be in a serious relationship, a woman you are seeing will "blow out". She's not gonna stay an FB forever and ever. A girlfriend is not gonna stay a girlfriend forever, she will eventually want marriage. And as we all know too many times married woman is not gonna stay married for ever anymore, she eventually wants out. Understand that all relationships are temporary, even in the only thing that stops them is death. Once you accept that, and you know what you really want. You understand more and you stress less. Good luck.
 

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Allurre said:
Changing a girl's mind? There's really no point in doing so.

The good news is, there are a lot of women out there looking for FB's.

The rule is to NEVER get emotional when spending time together. Avoid it.

FYI, most women will EVENTUALLY start developing feelings for you inevitably if your game is real good.
getting emotional is where i ****ed up!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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