"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Convincing my girl to give me a BJ..

djneo

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.. we've always talked about doing some fun and it involved Bj.. she told me she can't do it. She's a virgin.. how can i convince my girl to give a good Bj?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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She's probably afraid of hurting you and she could as a virgin.

You'll have to train her first.

Maybe just have her lick on it a bit for starters and then for more advanced technique have her practice slowly on a banana first then you lol.
 

Randallpink83

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theres nothing about getting a girl (that already trusts you) to do something you want sexually other then just directly presenting it to her and making it seem like its gonna happen, she might as well as do it...

Just start making out with her and then grab her hand and put it on it. Don't ever be to forceful though.. just make it seem natural (and it is).

Then if things are going well just open up the fly and bring it out and say "Stick it in your mouth"... or "it would be so good to feel your mouth on it right now"

...Basically she is a Virgin right? inexperienced and shy... Well then you gotta direct her into what you want to happen. Thats what men do... they lead.

this is my style anyhow. But I have alot of tact about it, I wouldn't make her feel uncomfortable or forced, it would seem very natural and smooth.
 

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KontrollerX said:
She's probably afraid of hurting you and she could as a virgin.

You'll have to train her first.

Maybe just have her lick on it a bit for starters and then for more advanced technique have her practice slowly on a banana first then you lol.
hahaha... thats funny stuff.

if its bad head, so what? what did you expect, her to be pro...?
there is nothing like practice, so she might as well as start practicing for you.. on you.

but if shes scraping real bad then just be like "ouch, haha, watch the teeth girl, ha... mmm feeling good though, keep going!"

light hearted, fun... build her up.... oh and uhh, return the favor.

in fact there is no rule against going down first.
 

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,, thanks.. this forum really helps me a lot, not only in my dating life. keep up the good works. =)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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